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clueless_one
July 16th, 2013, 01:58 AM
Everyone seems to just run away from me and I don’t understand why. I don’t smell and I look good. This became apparent to me when I reached back to my school after an excursion and I saw my group of friends my group of friends went to them and when they saw me they all picked up their things and ran away. Only two people stayed. What am I some kind of monster, I’m nice to everyone and am nice to lots of people and this is what I get back. Another thing is that I had asked out a girl and she said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. Am I some joke, I hate this when it happens and at times when it happens I feel like taking my life. It ruins me. The girl I now like who seems to like me (because the girl I asked out lied to me) now is also running away from me. Am I some joke and monster? The girl I like now did speak to me a bit but its made me upset.

I wanted to ask the girl I like now out but was afraid I will look desperate. But I’m going to ask her out anyway now. But I’m not sure how to tell her and what to tell her about the girl I asked out?

So firstly, why do people run away from me, I’m a really nice guy and all I get back is crap? I hate being a joke in the school and at times I feel my life is helpless and crap to the point I want to end my life. Also, How am I going to explain to the girl I like now that the girl I asked out lied, what should I say?

Signs the girl I like has been showing me of liking me back (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showpost.php?p=2385132&postcount=1)

nice
July 16th, 2013, 02:29 AM
Just because you're nice to people doesn't mean they'll like you. It could be something about your personality they don't like just because you think you're nice doesn't mean that you are. And just because people that don't like you or treat you good all the time doesn't mean you should kill yourself. I can think of a shit ton of people that don't like me and I do this thing that I learned from somewhere just blow kisses to the bitches. If they don't like you fuck it and them and just do what you want and you'll find people that like you for who you are.