Advice on dating

[xAlfredo]

Hi,
It's been a while since I've posted on here but I need advice and this is the only place I know I will get replies from other people who've hopefully been in the same situation as me....? or can at least help me out.

Ok, so, there's this guy.. He's really sweet and nice. He's ok looking. I met him a few years ago. We've been talking for a while and it's usually off and on (talk for a few days, then don't, then do). About a year or so ago, we were going to go out. However, I turned him down after constantly flirting with him for days before that. One thing is, he's desperate.. The day after I turned him down, he was on oovoo camsexing with other guys.. Yah. Another thing is, about a year or so ago, he sent me one of his dick pics, and I found out that a few of my other friends online who are also friends with him have seen it. That turns me off.. knowing other people have seen his dick..
Ok.
However, I've been really lonely lately. And knowing he's there, and he's single, and I could date him.. gives me temptations to be with him. However, I will always know that people have seen his junk, and he has tried to go out with a few of my guy friends, and he has camsexed with other guys.. Ugh.
I don't know. I think I sound really desperate now. Wow. ..
I just really want a boyfriend. And he is an option. I don't have any other options =/
I just wanna be happy again.. and I haven't been in a relationship for so long. Ughhhhhhh

Advice please :(

[isiah_]

Alright, dude well I honestly think you can do so much better than that guy. Don't settle for someone who is in front of you, but instead settle for someone who will love you. Don't know if that made much sense, but there's my two cents. Good luck, man!

[xAlfredo]

Alright, dude well I honestly think you can do so much better than that guy. Don't settle for someone who is in front of you, but instead settle for someone who will love you. Don't know if that made much sense, but there's my two cents. Good luck, man!

That's good advice, thanks.
I know I could do better. However, I don't think I care about doing better.. I just want that feeling that I'm loved by someone again, and that I'm needed in someone's life. Is that too much to ask? I don't feel that by anyone, really.. or at least I don't feel it by the people I wanna feel it from. I mean yeah, I feel it from my family. But that's different. I want a companion, I've been really lonely. I guess that's why I'm going for this guy, even though those things I mentioned really make me wanna forget about him.. Urghhh
It's hard to meet people online for me now, too.. It was never like this. It's already hard enough to meet people in real life (there's barely any gay guys here, and if there are, they're really weird or something about them doesn't attract me, imo).
That's why I'm looking online. I'm friends with this one guy who I play a game with and we talk and stuff but I've liked him in the past and he didn't share the same feelings for me. =/

[isiah_]

That's good advice, thanks.
I know I could do better. However, I don't think I care about doing better.. I just want that feeling that I'm loved by someone again, and that I'm needed in someone's life. Is that too much to ask? I don't feel that by anyone, really.. or at least I don't feel it by the people I wanna feel it from. I mean yeah, I feel it from my family. But that's different. I want a companion, I've been really lonely. I guess that's why I'm going for this guy, even though those things I mentioned really make me wanna forget about him.. Urghhh
It's hard to meet people online for me now, too.. It was never like this. It's already hard enough to meet people in real life (there's barely any gay guys here, and if there are, they're really weird or something about them doesn't attract me, imo).
That's why I'm looking online. I'm friends with this one guy who I play a game with and we talk and stuff but I've liked him in the past and he didn't share the same feelings for me. =/

You're young, man. Don't rush into things, I've learned that already. Soon enough you'll have someone who loves you for you. Don't worry!

[xAlfredo]

You're young, man. Don't rush into things, I've learned that already. Soon enough you'll have someone who loves you for you. Don't worry!
You make it sound easy. It's really hard to force a smile. :(
I don't wanna rush, but I want to at least find someone that I can bond with and repeat that love cycle again.. where you have a crush on them, you flirt, you think they have a crush on you, you start to flirt harder and send them hearts and <3 and give them a nickname, then you send even more signals, then one night you do something crazy with them and ask them out, then you date.. errrrrrr

[isiah_]

You make it sound easy. It's really hard to force a smile. :(
I don't wanna rush, but I want to at least find someone that I can bond with and repeat that love cycle again.. where you have a crush on them, you flirt, you think they have a crush on you, you start to flirt harder and send them hearts and <3 and give them a nickname, then you send even more signals, then one night you do something crazy with them and ask them out, then you date.. errrrrrr

I know how you feel, I've been in that position before. You've just gotta wait, dude. There's someone out there for you!