Confused about my guy friend

[Jenny jr]

I have a really good friend and he's a guy. We are not dating. About three months ago he came over to my house because my parents were gone. We ended up making out for around two hours. He was touching me a bit but I didn't care at the time because I was so into what we were doing. After he left I started to regret it. I really like him but I'm scared to date him. I've been sort of ignoring him for the last three months and he still likes me and try's texting me and he wants to hang out sometimes. I just want to know am i Being silly by doing this? Should I just like start dating him? He already asked me out. Should I walk up to him and give him a blowjob? (Totally kidding there!) I'm just not sure what the right thing to do is. Any advice would be great!!!!!

[Tifa]

Im not one to be giving advice about relationships, but personally I think you should tell him how ur feeling, then when he knows, it will be a whole lot easier to decide if u want to date him or not.

[Peta]

Well if you regretted it, and you're scared of dating him, that's not a good sign he's boyfriend material.

The best advice I think is what Tifa said above. Tell him the truth, tell him how you're feeling. It should make the decision easier. If your still not sure, I would very much advise against dating him (considering what you said above).

[LouBerry]

If you like him, go for it. Take your time and decide how you feel about being in a relationship with him.

[SammieRose]

Was it regret or you just felt that if you continue forward you might end up in a relationship that can fail and thus hurt your friendship?

If that is so, and you actually do not want to get in a relationship with him, then you better have the talk with him, as right now, all you are doing is actually hurting the friendship. You tried it, he liked it, you maybe not so much, that does not mean you should be bf and gf or nothing at all.

Get together, in a neutral place, and talk this through. You owe that to the friendship and you know it!

[TinyDancer]

Get to know him a little better. Do a day-date. See where your feelings are in a month.

[Taryn98]

if you like him and he likes you, what is the problem?
if you're not sure you really want to date him then don't
This isn't that complicated.

[emily-candace]

well you didn't say how old you were but If he was already touching you, Id be very careful, just tell him that you think you guys went a little too far to early. I know he's still your friend but that's your body and he has no right to it unless you say something. use your best judgement, just remember some pregnancies aren't expected when they happen. can you afford to get pregnant and this may lead to that. Good luck.

[PandaLeah]

Tell him that a real relationship is not all about sexual acts, it's about how you feel about the person. Try hanging out without the sex involved no matter how much it feels great. Or give him a rule, no sexual acts until 3-4 dates or a month or somehting... being a tease has it's perks.

I have a really good friend and he's a guy. We are not dating. About three months ago he came over to my house because my parents were gone. We ended up making out for around two hours. He was touching me a bit but I didn't care at the time because I was so into what we were doing. After he left I started to regret it. I really like him but I'm scared to date him. I've been sort of ignoring him for the last three months and he still likes me and try's texting me and he wants to hang out sometimes. I just want to know am i Being silly by doing this? Should I just like start dating him? He already asked me out. Should I walk up to him and give him a blowjob? (Totally kidding there!) I'm just not sure what the right thing to do is. Any advice would be great!!!!!

[kitten13]

you know if you have that far. that fast. next time he can get you a lone or in the dark he will push for more. you ready for that.