This is bad...

[Croconaw]

I seemed to have developed feelings for a girl. I will be referring to the people as;

Girl I like- M
^Her best friend (also a girl)- E
A and T- Two girls I know very well.
C- M's friend.

I haven't really talked to M that much. I just sit in front of her in Biology. We were watching a movie in school where me, M, and two other people. (A and T). I know these two very well. We all got in a conversation, and I said something that was really weird. T asked me if I I liked M, and then she said 'as a friend', right after I looked at T weird. Then I said 'I don't know' and then M said 'Oh come on, I thought we were friends' in a calm tone. Not knowing how to respond to that, I said 'We are'. M said 'Yay' in what seemed to sound sarcastic. Her best friend, E, knows I like someone but she is unaware that person is actually M. On Thursday in summer school, she got out of het seat snd sat next to me with her friend, C. However, she just glanced to my side a few times. She basically just talked to C the whole time. She said one time when she found out I take karate, M said 'We've got to talk more. You're awesome!'. But that was a while ago.

This kid in my grade also likes her, so I'm not sure if he is joking or what. E keeps saying they'd be cute together because they're both short. 4'11" and 5'1".

What should I do? And as far as I'm concerned, I think M is straight.

[Croconaw]

UPDATE: I was having trouble with my Algebra testing, and M helped me in exchange for me helping her with her Biology testing.

I've also noticed that M always sits next to me, dispite there being a few other open seats. :D

[FrostWraith]

It sounds like M kind of wants to get to know you better. If you're pretty sure she's heterosexual, then she probably is. That said, you should talk to her more and become better friends with her. That will give you a better opportunity to determine her sexuality or begin to date her if it comes to that.

[Victory]

I know I'm new here, but as a girl a few years older than you with a bit more experience, I figured I'd chime in. I think you should make a move. It can't be too soon and it can't be too late though. Like, you can't just come out and ask her if she likes girls because she may have those feelings but still feel weird because of it, and then stop talking to you altogether. Would it be possible to start hanging out with her outside of school? Like maybe invite her over or something? She'd feel much more comfortable in a setting like that. Then you can start being sort of suggestive.

I wish I would have done things that way. Instead I was just miserable throughout high school :(

[Croconaw]

Thanks. I'll see if I can talk to her tomorrow. I think it'd be easier since not many people will be around.

[Croconaw]

UPDATE: I think I am making it quite obvious (but not on purpose) that I like M because I can't stop smiling (literally) when I'm sitting next to her during testing.
But she is oblivious to the fact, which right now, I believe it is a good thing. I somehow want to let her know but I don't know if that'd be a good idea.
I happened to see her at Walmart, and she said hi to me. I wasn't really expecting it though. I said hi back and that's about it.

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Just don't do that to yourself. She probably only wants to be friends, and unfortunately you'll have to respect that.

[lyriclover]

Before you try anything, find out if she swings that way. There's nothing worse than hitting on a straight girl, cuz for girls, the line between friends and flirting can be very... hard to find. Speaking from experience, please find out at least her views on LGBTQ. Maybe hint that you're interested in girls, but not her specifically, just to see her reaction. Be careful, and good luck hun! :)

[Croconaw]

Thank you for your opinions. I will wait to see if anything happens. :)

[Victory]

So I hate to say it but it does sound like she's straight... I mean, I personally think that all of us girls can get curious or experimental on the right occasion, but if she's not picking up on signs like that, theeeeen.... but who knows? Maybe you aren't being as obvious as you think you are, which is probably a good thing. I don't see any harm in just going with the flow and being friends until she says or does something that indicates she may be les,bi,curious, or whatever though. Unless you eventually find yourself so attracted to her that it bums you out hanging out with her because you can't stand being in the friendzone anymore. If it ever gets to that, just get outta there. Trust me, there are many other girls (and boys if you like) out there, lol.

[Croconaw]

Yes, she more than likely could be. Thank you. :] I managed to become friends with her, though.

[Trenton_]

Yes, she more than likely could be. Thank you. :] I managed to become friends with her, though.

just be her friend so you do not freak her out. you are bi so maybe there is a guy you like too and maybe she is bi also and you could talk to her about that guy and maybe date him

then everyone gets a two for one which is awesome