Are We Really Friends?

[Micci]

I've known this girl for years. Three going on four, to be exact. But, ever since I've known her, she's said things that I don't agree with. There were some things on religion, but then she started focusing solely on LGBT stuff.

Okay, here's a few examples of things she's said in the past:

- "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. All I'm going to say."
- "I'm okay with the GBT, but the L is completely wrong."
- "Apparently, when there aren't any guys, you just go for what's available."

The last one was during a conversation about this girl we knew who left to go to an all girl's school.

We're good friends, and since I came out to her, she seemed to have stopped for a while. Some times, she brings up similar phrases as seen above.

I don't really know what to do about it, I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I do wish she would shut up about that. I think it's just her voicing her thoughts, (she's really blunt and stubborn about her beliefs) and I'm positive she'll stop telling me things altogether if I tell her how I feel about things.

So yeah, any ideas?

[LouBerry]

Tell her to stop being a bitch, that those things hurt your feelings, and that if she doesn't cool it, your friendship is over. If she doesn't stop, you don't need "friends" like her anyway.

[CharlieHorse]

Agreed she is being a bitch.
I have a friend that said that being gay is disgusting.
I told him why he's wrong, and why he's an asshole for thinking that, and I've not talked to him since.
I won't be friends with people who are anti-lgbt.

[Abyssal Echo]

Tell her to stop being a bitch, that those things hurt your feelings, and that if she doesn't cool it, your friendship is over. If she doesn't stop, you don't need "friends" like her anyway.

Agreed she is being a bitch.
I have a friend that said that being gay is disgusting.
I told him why he's wrong, and why he's an asshole for thinking that, and I've not talked to him since.
I won't be friends with people who are anti-lgbt.

I have to agree with Lou and Charlie your friend is being a bitch. talk to her about it if she doesn't stop. move on.

[Meganium]

I've known this girl for years. Three going on four, to be exact. But, ever since I've known her, she's said things that I don't agree with. There were some things on religion, but then she started focusing solely on LGBT stuff.

Okay, here's a few examples of things she's said in the past:

- "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. All I'm going to say."
- "I'm okay with the GBT, but the L is completely wrong."
- "Apparently, when there aren't any guys, you just go for what's available."

The last one was during a conversation about this girl we knew who left to go to an all girl's school.

We're good friends, and since I came out to her, she seemed to have stopped for a while. Some times, she brings up similar phrases as seen above.

I don't really know what to do about it, I don't want to lose her as a friend, but I do wish she would shut up about that. I think it's just her voicing her thoughts, (she's really blunt and stubborn about her beliefs) and I'm positive she'll stop telling me things altogether if I tell her how I feel about things.

So yeah, any ideas?

Tell her to stop being a bitch, that those things hurt your feelings, and that if she doesn't cool it, your friendship is over. If she doesn't stop, you don't need "friends" like her anyway.

Agreed she is being a bitch.
I have a friend that said that being gay is disgusting.
I told him why he's wrong, and why he's an asshole for thinking that, and I've not talked to him since.
I won't be friends with people who are anti-lgbt.

I have to agree with Lou and Charlie your friend is being a bitch. talk to her about it if she doesn't stop. move on.

Agreed. She's gone into bitch mode. If it makes you uncomfortable, and she won't stop after you tell her, then it's time to peace out.

Furthermore, if you need to ask the question "are we really friends", then your friendship needs some serious work, no offense.