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Tifa
July 14th, 2013, 09:47 AM
Well, im not usually one to ask for help, but whatevs. So Im a virgin, and I havent been on a date in like 6 months. Im trying to find the right girl/guy for me, but its very hard for me to find one that I can trust. All these guys, and a lot of girls go to fast for me. I m just trying to find someone that can be patient.
I dont know if theres something I can do, or some way of communicating this, but... idk. Any advice?

johnsmith1
July 14th, 2013, 10:51 AM
You are still young. These things will happen in time, and there's no harm in being a virgin until you're ready - don't let anyone push you into anything. When you meet someone, just make sure ground rules are there and you will meet the right person eventually.

Tifa
July 14th, 2013, 11:03 AM
THank you

Taryn98
July 14th, 2013, 11:31 AM
I agree, it's best to just wait and take your time. There's no rush to meet someone. It will happen when the time is right.
And not to press into your personal beliefs or anything, but I know from religious friend's of mine that there are a lot of people our age that are not interested in having sex because of their religious beliefs. Perhaps you could try and meet some people who wish to wait from a church close by depending on your personal beliefs.

Tifa
July 14th, 2013, 11:39 AM
Wow, thats actually a really good idea, thanks :)

annakatherine
July 16th, 2013, 02:21 PM
I agree with those who have said you have plenty of time. Sometimes "looking" and "searching" for the right person won't always work. You have to step back, give it time and it should happen naturally when it's meant to.

It's fate.

Austins
July 16th, 2013, 02:43 PM
I don't see why you have to try to lose your virginity, it will just happen. The people who look for a partner extremely hard are usually the one's who wind up being seen as desperate and used. Things happen at their own pace so for now just enjoy life :)

DanteZombie
July 18th, 2013, 02:23 AM
Go at your own pace, don't let others control what you do. Do something because you want to, not because that is what everyone else is doing.

Blackhawknut1
July 18th, 2013, 02:24 AM
Work your magic at your own pace