I'm so confused please help me

[Becauseyou'recutecx]

Okay so I'm really confused please help me and I'm sorry this might turn out long but do you think I'm gay bi or straight people always ask me if I'm gay because they say I act like a girl and I do feel sexually attracted to guys and I've had crushes on some that last about a week but I can barely see myself dating a guy and I would kiss a guy and sick him and jerk him but I wouldn't have sex with him because I think anal sex is gross I get hard when I see hot guys naked but I don't get hard when I see girls naked I do think they're beautiful but I'm not like you're hot let me see your boobes like other guys are but I have been in love with many girls so I am emotional attracted to girls but not that sexually attracted to them but I would have sex with a girl and get married and have a family with one and I really don't care if they have a penis or a vagina I would just love them for they're personally please help me.

[Annonymous1997]

this could be a phase your going through.
if you can see your self living with a female for the rest of your life and get married then i can a sure you that doesn't mean your gay

and also having a physical attraction to guys doesn't necessarily mean your Bi either
its if you have a mental attraction as well and could see yourself being with a guy for life

[Pacaveli]

Usually, that is just a part of growing up.

[sidecar]

You might be bisexual, but i think most young teen boys are bisexual to a degree.

[Foamy]

Hormone check! At your age hormones are in full swing, meaning you may become bi-curious when being sexually aroused. Even though you say naked chicks don't turn you on doesnt mean you can't have an emotional relationship with them. That means that there's always a chance that you will be straight. But you also have an equal chance of not beig straight. As of now though, it's the hormones kicking in.

[teen.jpg]

You might be bisexual, but i think most young teen boys are bisexual to a degree.

No, no they are not. I think you mean bi-curious, which is a WHOLE different subject.

I'd comment directly to the OP, but without punctuation I can't read that post.

[sidecar]

No, no they are not. I think you mean bi-curious, which is a WHOLE different subject.

I think bi-curious means being bisexual to a degree. I'm bi-curious, my identical twin is bisexual, so I think have a pretty good understanding of the two.

[teen.jpg]

I think bi-curious means being bisexual to a degree. I'm bi-curious, my identical twin is bisexual, so I think have a pretty good understanding of the two.

Bi-curious just means you're interested in both sexes, bisexual means you're attracted to both and capable of falling in love with either. One is a sexuality and the other is basically just a phase.

And I'd think I'd know this seeing as though I'm bi myself ...

[sidecar]

Bi-curious just means you're interested in both sexes, bisexual means you're attracted to both and capable of falling in love with either. One is a sexuality and the other is basically just a phase.

And I'd think I'd know this seeing as though I'm bi myself ...

So are boys still only bi-curious if they masturbate each other all the time, but are just buddies outside of that?

[teen.jpg]

So are boys still only bi-curious if they masturbate each other all the time, but are just buddies outside of that?

It really depends. But you're thinking of it the wrong way.

You're thinking of being bisexual as an "effect". That certain actions you do makes you bisexual.

Being bisexual would actually be the "cause". You would act that way because you were bisexual.

But anyway, I'm not able to say what somebody is, It's up to them to figure it out.

[sidecar]

It really depends. But you're thinking of it the wrong way.

You're thinking of being bisexual as an "effect". That certain actions you do makes you bisexual.

Being bisexual would actually be the "cause". You would act that way because you were bisexual.

But anyway, I'm not able to say what somebody is, It's up to them to figure it out.

Okay thanks :)

[Milky Joe]

That may be the longest sentence I've ever seen, but I've managed to decipher it and I've got this to say....

Don't worry about it. It’s not like you decide "I'm gay" or whatever, sign up to it and lock yourself into some lifestyle choice forever! 'Gay', 'straight', 'bi', whatever, they're just words, why label yourself? it doesn't change anything. You’re an individual, you like what you like, you fancy who you fancy, whatever – don’t over analyze it, just relax, and take it as it comes :cool: