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adam c
January 5th, 2008, 03:57 AM
I have a huge problem. The problem is, I love looking at pictures of nude men. Am I gay? In my religion it's a big sin to be gay.
The Resurrected One
January 5th, 2008, 04:01 AM
Yay, yet another thread called "Am I Gay". :P
Well, you are gay only if you have a physical and emotional attraction to males. Do you like girls? If so you aren't gay.
But hormones may play a part in this, since you are in your teens.
Patchy
January 5th, 2008, 04:13 AM
well during puberty your hormones make u attracted to different things. things will sort themself out as you reach the end of puberty
Serenity
January 5th, 2008, 05:09 AM
General Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality
Gavin
January 5th, 2008, 09:27 AM
Looking at those kinds of pictures you're curious to know what other guys look like nude,not gay,so i'm thinking it's your hormones.
Anyway you will have loads of time to figure this one out assuming that you're in your early teen and just started with the whole puberty.
ideasgirl
January 5th, 2008, 09:17 PM
Liking to look at pictures of naked men isn't a big deal. All guys do it, whether they're watching porn, on the beach, whatever. It's normal to compare yourself. But if you're worried about being gay, you should ask yourself, do you get sexually aroused when you look at photos of naked men? If the answer is yes, true it might just be a stage of puberty or due to hormones but from personal experience (a lot of my friends are gay males) being sexually aroused by naked men in your teens is often the first step in a self discovery of homosexuality. But still, it's each to their own. Whether you discover that you are gay at a later point in your life or not, you still have the choice to live a gay lifestyle, or to hide that part of you and instead live a straight lifestyle. (Which is not fun for any homosexual who goes through life pretending to be straight) but it certainly is doable. But for now, don't stress too much, there's absolutely nothing wrong with looking at photos of naked guys. If it's making you question your sexuality, then just be patient and don't get down on yourself. Don't be ashamed of any thoughts or feelings you have. The true factor is time.
johhny_k
January 5th, 2008, 10:44 PM
dude...im bi, i know im bi, ive been bi for about a year now...i jack off to guys all the time...but that doesnt make me gay. becuase i still like girls. guys just turn me on...and i am emotionally attracted to a few guys as well but if your not emotionally attracted to them, the you are not gay
Sugaree
January 6th, 2008, 02:43 PM
I have a huge problem. The problem is, I love looking at pictures of nude men. Am I gay? In my religion it's a big sin to be gay.
If you like looking at pictures of nude men it doesn't make you gay. to be gay you must be physically and emotinally attached to the same sex. It's just hormones:yes: and there is nothing to worry about.
chris__robin
January 6th, 2008, 08:02 PM
OMG
"hormones" are you serious?
if you are continuously looking at and getting off over photos of naked guys, you are more than likely to be gay, or bi. Please when i was adam_c 's age and doing the same thing i didnt put my problems down to 'hornmones'. sure being gay can be a tough thing to deal with, but you can't just ignore it.
religion ... oh i won't touch that.
The Resurrected One
January 7th, 2008, 11:23 PM
OMG
"hormones" are you serious?
Well it depends how you look at it.
But yes, those who said it are serious.
Sugaree
January 8th, 2008, 11:50 AM
OMG
"hormones" are you serious?
if you are continuously looking at and getting off over photos of naked guys, you are more than likely to be gay, or bi. Please when i was adam_c 's age and doing the same thing i didnt put my problems down to 'hornmones'. sure being gay can be a tough thing to deal with, but you can't just ignore it.
religion ... oh i won't touch that.
Ok now I have no idea where you would get the idea that looking at nude pics of guys makes you gay. He's just curious and it's hormones it's normal to be a little bit curious about the same sex and there is no shame in it.
And I would say that you need to calm down on that rant you had about it. Let's all just calm down and discuss this like mature young adults:yes:.
Unknown_kid
January 9th, 2008, 01:28 AM
heh, he is a mormon.
Listen my friend.
I was born a mormon, when i found out the hated gays, and such... i went christian, they don't care what is wrong with you or how you act, they will accept you any way.
Tatsuya
January 9th, 2008, 11:20 PM
another malaysian? come on...
~well you really need to check out vt.....i mean its every where saying whats gay mean....
~ if you really think that your gay,than you are......well it is in your head...and the religion thingy,you cant accused on yourself...i mean its not like you choose to be gay...it happen by it self......so think deep....are you gay or not...do you like to be in love with males or just seeing their bodies....
bloo ppl
January 22nd, 2008, 03:04 AM
its not that ur gay i mean in the same sittuaion its just housmons no big
gigimon
April 25th, 2008, 12:10 PM
Ok now I have no idea where you would get the idea that looking at nude pics of guys makes you gay. He's just curious and it's hormones it's normal to be a little bit curious about the same sex and there is no shame in it.
And I would say that you need to calm down on that rant you had about it. Let's all just calm down and discuss this like mature young adults:yes:.
hey are you saying that there is something shameful about being gay?
theres a big difference in being curious about sexuality and being gay/Bi
if you get off looking at naked men, high chances are that you are gay
also with the religion thing, treat it as a moral guideline, teaching you to be a good person but not telling you how to live your life
Whisper
April 25th, 2008, 01:26 PM
Please dont bump old threads in Pub or General
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