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palindrome1217
July 13th, 2013, 01:53 AM
my question is about my guy friend i have. we've known each other for like 10 years and know each other really well and are really comfortable together.

like a couple months ago he came over to my house. my parents have a hot tub outside and we go in it sometimes. one time he said he didn't have a swimsuit and asked if he could go naked. i said ok, kinda nervos, but i figured there wasn't any harm. he dropped his boxers and climbed in and i was like oooommmgggg....anyways, we talked for like a couple hours and after a little while i didn't even remember he was naked. i only brought 1 towel so i used it to go inside and told him i'd bring him a towel. i was in the laundry room and then he walked in the back door completely naked and then walked in the living room and started getting his clothes ready. i didn't want to make it weird so i brought him a towel and didn't really look but he just stood there drying jhimself in front of me butt ass naked and then got dressed. then i went upstairs, got changed and came downstairs and we said bye.

he's seen me naked a couple times (skinny dipping, streaking...) but that was in the dark. since the hot tub thing, i've seen him naked tons of times like even in the day. once we were traveling and had a hotel together and he came out of the shower completely naked and started changing in front of me. another time we were hanging out at his house on a hot day and he had just showered and came out and asked me if i cared if he stayed naked since it was so hot. i said i guess and he dropped his towel and stayed naked for like 2 hours. i know it sounds weird but he didn't make it awkward or anything, we just watched tv and talked like normal except he was totally naked the whole time.

i guess i must not care or i'm just used to it now. he said something once like "if you've seen me naked once, it's the same the next time" and i guess he's right. i've seen him naked in broad daylight and i guess if he's comfortable with his own body then why should i feel uncomfortable?

so i guess my question is do you have any guy friends like this? like ones that you can see naked and it doesn't even faze you? or i guess do you have any guy friends that you're ok with them seeing you naked? i dont care if he happens to see me naked but i'm not comfortable enough to just strut around my house in my birthday suit. but it's weird because it honestly doesn't really bother me seeing him naked. he really doesn't make it weird or uncomfortable so it's just like hanging out with any other friend...who happens to be naked.

dvd333
July 13th, 2013, 03:45 AM
Personally, i wish i was your friend. My female friends hate that...i am an exhibitionist, but im okay with my body. Even if it does get sexual, im fine with it. Being naked isnt wrong. It couldnt feel anymore right for me...

Steven1
July 13th, 2013, 03:55 AM
Yes, I do. My friend who I've been friends with for almost 8 or 9 years now. If I'm round and he's in the shower he just comes out naked and starts getting changed. We've both seen parts of each other at separate times anyway, so the logic is it wouldn't make a difference all at once. I can't see why it would be so different, the only difference is clothes, that's it, nothing between the two of you has changed.

Sharona
July 13th, 2013, 07:17 AM
I'd say he is a nudist/naturist or at least wants to be
That's how it is for us - it makes a good or normal thing/experience so much better
You should give it ago
Nudity isn't sexual unless you make it sexual

He sounds like a really good guy who is considerate by asking first and also trusts you

Some boys get naked around girls with intent on chasing you/hounding you to get nude too or give sexual favours

He sounds like a great friend to have - real bf material if you think there could be more

I have friends like this too and have been to nude beaches and hung out with many this way since I was 12

countryboi9
July 13th, 2013, 08:15 AM
hey its ok for friends to go naked at times with each other, me and my friends do it

palindrome1217
July 13th, 2013, 10:31 AM
Idk if it makes any difference but I don't think I mentioned it that he's just a friend, not boyfriend material. there's nothing wrong with him, I just don't see him that way, he's more like a brother. i'm just not sure if its normal for other high schoolers to have friends that comfortable being naked. I prolly make it sound like he's naked all the time but he's not. we go to movies and out to eat and stuff and obviously he's not naked in public so most of the time he's got clothes on. but is it weird that whenever I do see him naked that its just normal, like if he was wearing clothes? i've talked to people at my high school and they're like wth is wrong with you because none of their friends do that stuff. idk I just don't really care and neither does he and it doesn't bother me so maybe its ok.

dvd333
July 13th, 2013, 10:43 AM
Idk if it makes any difference but I don't think I mentioned it that he's just a friend, not boyfriend material. there's nothing wrong with him, I just don't see him that way, he's more like a brother. i'm just not sure if its normal for other high schoolers to have friends that comfortable being naked. I prolly make it sound like he's naked all the time but he's not. we go to movies and out to eat and stuff and obviously he's not naked in public so most of the time he's got clothes on. but is it weird that whenever I do see him naked that its just normal, like if he was wearing clothes? i've talked to people at my high school and they're like wth is wrong with you because none of their friends do that stuff. idk I just don't really care and neither does he and it doesn't bother me so maybe its ok.

Thats very interesting...

almostasian
July 26th, 2013, 10:53 PM
I wish I had friends like that. I find nudity comfortable.

Swagging god
July 27th, 2013, 12:14 AM
Personally, i wish i was your friend. My female friends hate that...i am an exhibitionist, but im okay with my body. Even if it does get sexual, im fine with it. Being naked isnt wrong. It couldnt feel anymore right for me...

I agree with " dvd333's post completely never really considered nudity a bad thing I enjoy being naked in front or not in front of people. About 25 of my school and outside friends mainly males ( the guys are just friends) about that many girls either casually or during of course intercourse if we have it. BOTTOM LINES IS I LOVE BEING NAKED, have ever since I was 10.

honeybear
July 27th, 2013, 07:01 AM
myself my male and female friends are all very comfortable being nude around each other...mostly it doesn't turn into anything more than hanging out

trimm_tom
August 4th, 2013, 01:09 PM
naked is fine as long as no sex or arousal begins

GigglyAbby
August 4th, 2013, 09:33 PM
To me -- I couldn't see ANY friend naked because to me nakedness is a gift between couples and lovers.

Deltaphi
August 6th, 2013, 09:43 AM
I have a friend that i can be naked with. why should i care? he has a cock and balls just like I do.

trimm_tom
August 6th, 2013, 12:01 PM
us guys can sometimes handle it but to be honest it sounds as if he is pushing the bounderies seeing what he can get away with

canadaboy44
October 27th, 2013, 01:50 PM
hes just confident and doesn't care who sees, many athletes (guys and girls) learn to not care cause they gotta shower after games and stuff
hes not pushing anything so unless you have a problem with it (clearly you don't) just let it go unless your parents could be around

Joey.
October 27th, 2013, 01:59 PM
I Wish I had a guy friend like that http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-laughing017.gif
But he seems like he's very comfortable around you.
And if your comfortable with it too,
then i see no harm!

Harley Quinn
October 27th, 2013, 02:16 PM
Don't bump threads 2 months or older. :locked: