Friend wants to experiment...

[billybigfish]

So basically, I have this friend, he's a really good friend, and we love eachother like brothers, but the other day he was telling me about his sexual experiences and he asked me if we could try stuff, Im all for it, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help me! I don't know what to do!

[SammieRose]

Well, I guess you could set it up as FWB (Friend With Benefits) relationship between the two of you, but both of you have to be sure you understand what FWB means. If both of you accept to be that, then go for it.

If you think that there might be a chance of one of you falling for the other, know that if it does not work out, you might damage the friendship.

[billybigfish]

Thank you so much! You've actually helped loads!
I'll post again if I need anything

[answers-101]

So basically, I have this friend, he's a really good friend, and we love eachother like brothers, but the other day he was telling me about his sexual experiences and he asked me if we could try stuff, Im all for it, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin our friendship. Help me! I don't know what to do!

mate go for it! it's not very often you're gunna find someone offering you the chance. yeno, YOLO haha

[Morgoth42]

mate go for it! it's not very often you're gunna find someone offering you the chance. yeno, YOLO haha

I agree. If one of my friends wants to expirament I'm jumping on that like there is no tomarrow.

[MrDrDude]

He did bring the topic up and if you are for it, than go ahead and try it out, jut don't let him humiliate you in front of others.

[Leon03]

It's hard to answer a simple 'yes' or 'no'.
If you are sure it's just curiosity which drives your friend to ask you for experimenting and you are ok with it: You should do it. Talking from own experience it's great to have open best friends you can trust and do stuff like this with.
Yet, if you are not sure if there is emotions or feelings involved by your friend you should rather not do it as this would definitly ruin your friendship.

[billybigfish]

It's hard to answer a simple 'yes' or 'no'.
If you are sure it's just curiosity which drives your friend to ask you for experimenting and you are ok with it: You should do it. Talking from own experience it's great to have open best friends you can trust and do stuff like this with.
Yet, if you are not sure if there is emotions or feelings involved by your friend you should rather not do it as this would definitly ruin your friendship.

Well, I've already asked him what it is he wants to try, and he's told me, and I've asked him why and he just wants to see what it's like, I've told him my past experiences, and he said he's more than happy to try anything
I really really want to do it as well, and I'm worried that if I don't he's gunna be annoyed with me, but I'm also worried that if we do do it, things will become awkward and our bond will break

[Leon03]

If there are still doubts, you better don't do it. Your regrets will be killing you if your friendship is getting awkward afterwards.
Yet, it depends on what you are planing to do together. To me experimenting ends right where sexual stuff begins. Examples are not welcome here but I'd consider intimate things you normaly only do to your partner :) not experimenting anymore.

[billybigfish]

If there are still doubts, you better don't do it. Your regrets will be killing you if your friendship is getting awkward afterwards.
Yet, it depends on what you are planing to do together. To me experimenting ends right where sexual stuff begins. Examples are not welcome here but I'd consider intimate things you normaly only do to your partner :) not experimenting anymore.

Well to be honest I class experimenting as Intermate stuff... And so does he... I think I'm gunna do it... Wish me luck

[Ciel09x]

If he asked mayne you should go for it, maybe he needs advice :)

[sidecar]

I think you're perfectly fine doing this. It sounds to me like you guys are on safe ground and i think you will really enjoy being intimate with each other this way. I've been doing stiff with my best friend i love like a brother for two months now and it's been fantastic. Good luck!

[jayjay's toocool]

DI you already do it??

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Say yes!

[pjones]

if you did it, i hope it worked out for you. have done it with my best friend and it didn't change anything between us except make us closer.

[MaguireUk]

Just go with what you thinks best, from my experience its brings your bond together. But at any point you feel like ripping you apart can always back out

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

Ruined my friendship but it doesn't mean to say it'd ruin yours. Also, make sure he isn't a loudmouth who would spread it.

[Hermes96]

look i'd say go for it if it's on the table. Just make sure you or your mate know how far you want to go so you don't end up expecting more and getting hurt

[bimusic]

Go for it...

[DanteZombie]

Lol personally I would go for it...

[answers-101]

Well, I've already asked him what it is he wants to try, and he's told me, and I've asked him why and he just wants to see what it's like, I've told him my past experiences, and he said he's more than happy to try anything
I really really want to do it as well, and I'm worried that if I don't he's gunna be annoyed with me, but I'm also worried that if we do do it, things will become awkward and our bond will break

i guarantee u that wont happen, it can only boost ur relationship... and it's great fun. my advice is not to worry about it and go for it :)

[GeorgeBoy]

try it man

[LunarScorpio]

He wants to do it, you want to do it.

I would go for it

Enjoy

[azza955]

If you both want to, then go for it!
but be careful that you don't go further than you are both comfortable going.