This friend of mine...

[TheMaster]

...is really "friendly" with me if you know what I'm saying. He always wants to hug me and whenever he does its one of those that verges on a 'romantic' hug and I may or may have not caught him looking at me. Whenever I'm around he's so nice to me. I'm not complaining AT ALL because he's legitimately a great person, but I'm just wondering if he has a little bit of a crush on me. I'm not sure of his sexuality, but he's never had a girlfriend, and by his physical appearance, I wouldn't be shocked if he were gay or bi. Of course, never judge a book by it's cover, yet actions speak louder than words. So what do you think? Should I approach him about it?

[lukene]

Sure, why not.

[SammieRose]

Grab his butt, if he flinches and is ready to punch you, you can always say "Hey, bro, can't you take a joke?", but if he just looks into your eyes, go for it. ;)

[answers-101]

i wouldn't bring it up in a group, but take him to once side and bring it up discretely, he'd appreciate that :)

[Morgoth42]

Talk to him about it over a text or in a location that if it were to come up he wouldn't have any reason to lie to you about it. Make it known that you are only inquiring.

[MrDrDude]

Look, I have had friends (girls) who give hugs like you described and the friends were friendly people like you described. I would do the same thing for guys as long as it isn't in a place were someone could see and than humiliate you for it, throw him a bone, but don't do it publicly.

[Santiago1618]

Why not

[MaguireUk]

Grab his butt, if he flinches and is ready to punch you, you can always say "Hey, bro, can't you take a joke?", but if he just looks into your eyes, go for it. ;)


I would listen and go with this great advice, couldnt really add on to it ;)

[CharlieHorse]

Grab his butt, if he flinches and is ready to punch you, you can always say "Hey, bro, can't you take a joke?", but if he just looks into your eyes, go for it. ;)

Best advice i've ever read :P

[Foamy]

Grab his butt, if he flinches and is ready to punch you, you can always say "Hey, bro, can't you take a joke?", but if he just looks into your eyes, go for it. ;)

This is actually good advice. Do something that you can say was a joke if he's not that kind of person.

[sidecar]

I'm straight, but I have a couple of buddies who are the huggy cuddle type and I really like them a lot. It's like you said, they're super extra nice. Sometimes guys can have a really deep non-sexual affection for each other which is called "bromance". But whether he's gay or not, it sounds like you've got a really special sweet friend.

[Abyssal Echo]

Grab his butt, if he flinches and is ready to punch you, you can always say "Hey, bro, can't you take a joke?", but if he just looks into your eyes, go for it. ;)

I would listen and go with this great advice, couldnt really add on to it ;)

Best advice i've ever read :P

I have to agree with the above posters advice. and say go for it.

[teen.jpg]

Maybe he's just a clingy sort of guy. It would be bad to insinuate something like that, so I wouldn't ask him directly. Just try to ask questions that would give you a hint at his sexuality.

[TheMaster]

Thanks everyone!!

[Hermes96]

i'd personally just sit him down somewhere i know he like to go and ask him once he comfortable or you could go with the more popular grab his but both have worked for me

[Toptoptop]

Be like when your alone with him or something be like hey man, idk if its just me but I really just wanna know if you have a crush on me. If you say yes I will not think of you any less or something like that

[DanteZombie]

Unless it really bugs you I wouldn't.