I feel cheap and worthless.

[Dimentio]

Well i never have and probably never will have a boyfriend, Not kissed or anything, I have just hugged people and that's usually girls who also are nearly all my friends!
And what makes me feel like a cheap whore is today, My friend got me hormonal and all my life i have wanted to wait for true love, Growing up, All i wanted is true love and when i reached a teen, I wanted my first time to be with my true love, That was it, But no, I had to give and receive a fucking handjob today and let me and most importantly, My past self down.
And every time i have spoken to a guy lately, They make themselves out to be so nice and friendly and like we will be amazing friends but then suddenly turn hateful and call me names when all i have done is be kind to them! For example:
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This happened tonight, Like he had made me download things before to talk to him, When he said he was self conscious about himself and knew i was said stuff about my looks, Called this singer Lady Faga, But calling me that and just not dealing with it any more, I broke!
I am just getting so sick of being too nice to people and having them walk all over me and now betraying myself by doing what i did today with that guy, And now i am hiding something from my friends and family and i feel like i am a lier and now if i ever do get a guy who is genuinly nice, He will always dislike me a bit for doing what i did, I just want a genuine guy in my life.
I want a guy who will talk to me and show his feelings and let me show mine, I want a guy who won't judge me and if we are talking, Won't leave or suddenly stop talking to me, I want a guy to understand me and like me for me, And most of all, I just want this from anyone right now, But, I just want someone to hold me and tell me everyone makes mistakes and i am not bad, It's just other people.
I hate going to sleep after i have been crying but I'm going to try sleeping now i guess.
I hope you guys have had a good day and are happy at least!

[TurtleMcloud]

i feel the same way, ive always been nice to people and they just stop talking to me. it really does suck i really do understand what you feel and want. you will find someone, trust me : )

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hey slow down a minute, I know what you're feeling, there is someone out there, you just got to wait, the right person came for me after I was waiting. Keep your chin up and think positive,

[Dimentio]

Wrong reply.

[Rayquaza]

If people are like that to you, they aren't your friends and you need to seriously reconsider wasting your time with them or not. If they're going to casually drop in homophobic remarks like that they they aren't good for you and you need to get rid of them. Also, why do you care so much about getting a boyfriend? Are this generation of youth so fixated on love and sex? What about having a life rather than thinking about settling down and having children. I seriously don't understand why teens like us who are yet to start life just complain about not having someone there. We have friends, family and our close ones. We don't need a lover at this point in our lives, and neither do you.

[Dimentio]

If people are like that to you, they aren't your friends and you need to seriously reconsider wasting your time with them or not. If they're going to casually drop in homophobic remarks like that they they aren't good for you and you need to get rid of them. Also, why do you care so much about getting a boyfriend? Are this generation of youth so fixated on love and sex? What about having a life rather than thinking about settling down and having children. I seriously don't understand why teens like us who are yet to start life just complain about not having someone there. We have friends, family and our close ones. We don't need a lover at this point in our lives, and neither do you.

I'm sorry but you are in no position to say what i can have/want.
I don't want a boyfriend for sex! I want a boyfriend for the love! I want a boyfriend to be there for me, To sit up with me on the settee watching films al snuggled up while we try to avoid sleep, I want a boyfriend to LOVE me!
Yes i have friends, Which consist of 2 partially 3 people, And like a few family i actually get a long with, But everyone needs love! So i am not sure how you can say that and try to say i do not want it or need it! That is VERY rude and VERY offensive!
I do not like it what so ever when people i do not know say what i can want, Everyone i speak to, Everyone i have known, Everyone i don't know, Everyone needs love, Love as well as hope can keep people going, You do not know how many times if someone was there for me in the love way, I would of missed a depression!
Like Christian from Moulin Rouge says, Love is like oxygen, Love is a many splendour thing, Love lifts us up where we belong, All you need is love!
Currently and possibly for another year, I am doing nothing with my life, I have the time and whatever for a boyfriend, And like i said, I do not want one for all the reasons other people do, And i know love is not something you can just throw yourself into and give to just anyone, I know about it and i know what i want and it is love.

[Rayquaza]

I'm sorry but you are in no position to say what i can have/want.
I don't want a boyfriend for sex! I want a boyfriend for the love! I want a boyfriend to be there for me, To sit up with me on the settee watching films al snuggled up while we try to avoid sleep, I want a boyfriend to LOVE me!
Yes i have friends, Which consist of 2 partially 3 people, And like a few family i actually get a long with, But everyone needs love!

You're 17 and you're telling me you need love? Like it's some sort of necessity to have at this age? That's pathetic. There are people in their mid 30s that still haven't fond true love. And the fact you have family should be the people that you are close to, snuggle with and be with.

I want a boyfriend to LOVE me!

Basically a way of saying "I want someone to give me non stop attention!". The only reason you found my post "rude and offensive" was because you weren't expecting a response like mine when all I'm actually doing is giving you a reality check. You'll find someone eventually, you don't need to stress about finding someone at this moment in time.

[Bornsteller]

You're 17 and you're telling me you need love? Like it's some sort of necessity to have at this age? That's pathetic. There are people in their mid 30s that still haven't fond true love. And the fact you have family should be the people that you are close to, snuggle with and be with.



Basically a way of saying "I want someone to give me non stop attention!". The only reason you found my post "rude and offensive" was because you weren't expecting a response like mine when all I'm actually doing is giving you a reality check. You'll find someone eventually, you don't need to stress about finding someone at this moment in time.

You must be a sad, sad lonely old man. This forum states that those that post in the forums should be exclusively sensitive to others situations and emotions. So you, being a smart mouthy jerk, are really not doing that. The only reason I can think of for your stupidity, would be you did not receive any love or caring from a young age, or are simply one of those people who go on forums just to piss everyone else off or make them feel bad.

In order to grow up healthy and do good in everything you do, you MUST be in an environment of caring and support. You say this generation is fixated on love. Has it occurred to you that YOUR generation (assuming you are an adult, as you act like it) raised this generation with no caring, just single mindedness as to work to improve yourselves, as if having a child was just a roadmark achievement.


"Love" is NOT exclusively dating or sex or marriage. Love is everything from marriage and having sex, down to basic companionship, friendship, and caring. You most obviously lack any and all of these.

[Rayquaza]

You must be a sad, sad lonely old man. This forum states that those that post in the forums should be exclusively sensitive to others situations and emotions. So you, being a smart mouthy jerk, are really not doing that. The only reason I can think of for your stupidity, would be you did not receive any love or caring from a young age, or are simply one of those people who go on forums just to piss everyone else off or make them feel bad.

In order to grow up healthy and do good in everything you do, you MUST be in an environment of caring and support. You say this generation is fixated on love. Has it occurred to you that YOUR generation (assuming you are an adult, as you act like it) raised this generation with no caring, just single mindedness as to work to improve yourselves, as if having a child was just a roadmark achievement.


"Love" is NOT exclusively dating or sex or marriage. Love is everything from marriage and having sex, down to basic companionship, friendship, and caring. You most obviously lack any and all of these.

LOL Dude I'm 17 myself and single, I'm not an adult, I'm just realistic and not living in a fairy tale world. That's why I'm telling this guy he doesn't have to spend his life looking for someone and complain about being lonely. Why don't you be quiet and stop quoting me rules when I've been here almost 3 years longer than you, Being sensitive doesn't mean sugar coating my response and giving an answer that the OP should always want to hear. Has it ever occurred to YOU that love can be just the relationship that a son has to their parents? Obviously not. I never said Humans shouldn't have love, I'm saying that in this time of being a teen it's not a big deal. It's sad to see people wanting love when they haven't even experienced life yet, considering love is the emotion you should leave till last as it's a rough patch in human lives.

[Bornsteller]

@Tweety

Well it looks to me like the OP didn't like what you had to say, so you probably should have shut up at that moment, and went somewhere else to piss people off. There are times in this world when sugar coating is the last thing you want to do, and there are other times when its pretty necessary.

When your going through alot of crap, and not a darn person cares, you kind of want to feel appreciated. You must not have ever felt that need, that want for someone to actually give a crap about you. "Has it ever occurred to YOU that love can be just the relationship that a son has to their parents?" Yea, that has occurred to me. Many times. And guess what, that doesn't happen for most of our generation. So we have to supplement for it.

"It's sad to see people wanting love when they haven't even experienced life yet, considering love is the emotion you should leave till last as it's a rough patch in human lives." I have lived more of a life, that full grown adults, at an advanced age, have ever dreamt of living, just in the last 6 years of my life. Because of that, I know that love is something you NEED, from the moment your born, to the moment of your last breath on this earth.

I want to say, I am sorry. I really am. Whatever it is or was that makes you act in such a rude, presumptuous, and all knowing manner, I am truly sorry. I hope you find someone that will show you the caring you need to grow up and be successful. :)

[Rayquaza]

@Tweety

Well it looks to me like the OP didn't like what you had to say, so you probably should have shut up at that moment, and went somewhere else to piss people off. There are times in this world when sugar coating is the last thing you want to do, and there are other times when its pretty necessary.

When your going through alot of crap, and not a darn person cares, you kind of want to feel appreciated. You must not have ever felt that need, that want for someone to actually give a crap about you. "Has it ever occurred to YOU that love can be just the relationship that a son has to their parents?" Yea, that has occurred to me. Many times. And guess what, that doesn't happen for most of our generation. So we have to supplement for it.

"It's sad to see people wanting love when they haven't even experienced life yet, considering love is the emotion you should leave till last as it's a rough patch in human lives." I have lived more of a life, that full grown adults, at an advanced age, have ever dreamt of living, just in the last 6 years of my life. Because of that, I know that love is something you NEED, from the moment your born, to the moment of your last breath on this earth.

Just because the OP didn't like what I said doesn't mean it's untrue.

Just because I stated the truth doesn't mean I came to just piss people off.

Just because there are times in the world where sugar coating is necessary it doesn't have to be now.

Just because you've lived a life like that doesn't mean other people do.

Just because you think you relate to the OP doesn't mean you can tell me what's right and what's wrong.

Looking at the OPs previous threads I don't even need to say much more. This thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=183911)shows that the OP got upset because it was only 2 days that he didn't speak to anyone. 2 Days.

I want to say, I am sorry. I really am. Whatever it is or was that makes you act in such a rude, presumptuous, and all knowing manner, I am truly sorry. I hope you find someone that will show you the caring you need to grow up and be successful. :)

And I'm sorry that you're so contemptible. But the sarcasm in that quote is really quite asinine.

[batwomr.smithshane]

Bro i feel bad for you but the chances of finding the one are like winning the loto bro be happy for now and wait for him and vm me im not rude ill listen

[CosmicNoodle]

I used to be to nice to people until i just snapped one day and attacked someone in the hall way after maths..ye..that didn't go down well
After that i just stopped talking to people i didn't want to waste anymore of my time on and only focused on my real friends, i am much happier now and people don't bother me anymore