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billwill

January 4th, 2008, 03:11 PM

so i recently met a girl and realized i'm in love with her. although, i have 3 problems.1- we dont go to the same school.2- i dont know if she has a boyfriend.3- i barely see her maybe twice a month but i chat with her online and i have her myspace. what can i do or say so she feels the same way i feel for her(so she will like me too)??

Patchy

January 4th, 2008, 03:16 PM

well if u will hardly see her its best to get to know her really well before you ask her out.

goin to work

January 4th, 2008, 03:41 PM

dude nice just talk to her more and show her ur a nice guy

ScotsGirl

January 4th, 2008, 10:47 PM

Solutions:
1- you dont spend every waking moment in school, theres plenty of time after school and at weekends to see her.
2- ask her. During the conversation, maybe start by talking about real things before you ask her straight out. Not small talk. I mean, things that you wouldnt usually tell just anyone;). Just so she doesnt just think youre asking because you want to ask her out...
3- carry on chatting to her and maybe arrange to hang out with her more than a couple of times a month. (Also, refer to no.1)

Just get to know her. Hang out and of course, have fun :D
xxx

billwill

January 6th, 2008, 03:47 PM

how do i find out if she has a boyfriend?

billwill

January 6th, 2008, 06:42 PM

what can i ask to find out if she has a boyfriend? wouldn't it be awkward just to ask if she has a boyfriend? besides, i don't even know if she likes me back.

January 6th, 2008, 07:56 PM

I really doubt you actually love this person if they're not even a close friend yet. Just get to know her a bit and don't try to be too hasty.

Octo22

January 7th, 2008, 09:10 PM

I really doubt you actually love this person if they're not even a close friend yet. Just get to know her a bit and don't try to be too hasty.

Stole my post.

You're infatuated, not in love. You love the ideal you see her as. Get to know her as a MUCH closer friend, you may just pick up on some faults you don't like. Take off the rose-coloured glasses. Get to know her.

And caring about the boyfriend part before getting to know her better is almost a sign of disrespect. If you can't date her you don't care for her?

Simplest way to bring it up, is to just let a conversation slide that.

You: Ugh this girl keeps hitting on me, but I'm completely not interested!

followed shortly after by a: you got this at all? or do you have a boyfriend to ward them off :P

Something like that, (not that exact) just drop it in there.