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randomlad
January 4th, 2008, 11:51 AM
i am 13 and i have no under arm hair n my voice hasnt broken completely
my mates have under arm hair and they all have deep voices
is there anyay to try and get a deeper voce withhout causing pain???:(:(

Patchy
January 4th, 2008, 11:53 AM
theres no safe way and ur voice will break your only 13 puberty lasts until ur late 20's so theres plenty of time.

there is cosmetic surgery that does it but ive heard its really painful and is really expensive

MadDookie
January 4th, 2008, 11:55 AM
Unfortuanetly no. Why does it matter whether or not you have a deep voice? You don't want to be the odd one out? Do they tease you about it? I know it must be frustrating to be so trailing behnd your mates, but it's just a matter of time. If your voice has already broken, then rest assured that it will deepen sooner than you think.

randomlad
January 5th, 2008, 04:52 PM
You don't want to be the odd one out? Do they tease you about it? I know it must be frustrating to be so trailing behnd your mates, but it's just a matter of time.

I do get teased sometimes but my voice is already noticebly deeper thn wen i said this. It's annoyin but i can cope. Hope it doesn't take too long.... why can puberty be so annoying!!!!!! Let's hope science can make puberty quick and painless. Same for lasses aswel:yeah::lol:

sam1234
January 5th, 2008, 10:26 PM
i hate it i get called gay all the time because my voice hasnt broke yet but then most of the people who tease me dont even have hair anywere and some of them there voice hasnt even broken and im sick of being labled gay because of the way i talk

Sugaree
January 5th, 2008, 11:16 PM
i am 13 and i have no under arm hair n my voice hasnt broken completely
my mates have under arm hair and they all have deep voices
is there anyay to try and get a deeper voce withhout causing pain???:(:(

Sorry there isn't anyway. Your friends are just developing faster then you are.

zorba17
January 6th, 2008, 09:03 AM
i wouldnt recomend it, but my mate has a really deep voice, but he is in a screeemo band.

Malcolm Tucker
January 6th, 2008, 11:08 AM
i am 13 and i have no under arm hair n my voice hasnt broken completely
my mates have under arm hair and they all have deep voices
is there anyay to try and get a deeper voce withhout causing pain???:(:(

Yeah, no. No safe, or sane way to do it. You need to let it take its course. Patience is what you need rather than an alternative method to puberty enhancement. No, if I were you, I would wait.

RaisingSand
January 6th, 2008, 05:59 PM
Dude, slow down, will you! You are 13 years old, you still have a lot of time left for those things to happen. And no, there is no way to deepen your voice, you're just going to have to wait for it to happen (which it will).
So you may be a late bloomer, so what? There's nothing you can do to change it, so you're just going to have to accept it and just be patient and wait for all these things to happen to you. :P

byee
January 6th, 2008, 06:20 PM
i am 13 and i have no under arm hair n my voice hasnt broken completely
my mates have under arm hair and they all have deep voices
is there anyay to try and get a deeper voce withhout causing pain???:(:(

i hate it i get called gay all the time because my voice hasnt broke yet but then most of the people who tease me dont even have hair anywere and some of them there voice hasnt even broken and im sick of being labled gay because of the way i talk


(Another Sam, huh? Welcome to a great club!)

Anyway, it's tough when others have what you don't (and really want). It's even tougher when they remind you of this. Yuck.

There is no way to lower your voice, you'll have to wait this one out. The good news is that eventually, it will happen (along with all those other changes). In the mean time, try to focus on all those other great qualities you have. You're more than what you don't yet have, you know.

Besides, if your voice was lower (or you had whatever it is you see them having first), they'd find something else to point out, it's just the competitive (and really insecure) nature of teenage guys.