Kissing

[kfmt]

me and my new girlfriend were on her bed watching tv, and we kept looking at eachother - i know this sounds coney, but anyway, i wanted to kiss her, but i wasnt shore how to start is, not how to kiss, how is begin kissing, sorry if it doesnt make sence.

[Patchy]

I guess you mean how to begin kissing

well it depends on the person your wanting to kiss...there needs to be a right moment and you shouldnt push her into it coz she might dump you otherwise. Its best you mention something like I love you then go 90% in and let her come 10% coz you will know then if shes wanting to or not

[kfmt]

I guess you mean how to begin kissing

well it depends on the person your wanting to kiss...there needs to be a right moment and you shouldnt push her into it coz she might dump you otherwise. Its best you mention something like I love you then go 90% in and let her come 10% coz you will know then if shes wanting to or not

thanks you v.much, i wouldnt push her into doing anything, but i know what you meen. thanks!

[randomlad]

going 90% is right but my problem is how long for and ho to act if caught by any family

[Patchy]

going 90% is right but my problem is how long for and ho to act if caught by any family

well do it until you think enough is enough or if she pulls away...and if a family member catches u well if you love the person say that to them and say ur doing nothing wrong.

[Serenity]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[staying_alive]

dude i was in ALMOST the same situation. wanting to kiss your girlfriend......don't want it to be awkward. i totally hate awkward moments, so i just decided to TALK to her about it. how comfortable are you with her? is she someone that you can talk to about anything. it all depends. you could take the "go part way, let her go the other part way" if you want to make it totally romantic. i'm almost positive that she will follow your lead. if you want a surefire way to kiss her, just ask her. do it in a flirty way like telling her to close her eyes or something, that you want to give her a gift, and kiss her. i don't know man, be creative. good luck!

[kfmt]

dude i was in ALMOST the same situation. wanting to kiss your girlfriend......don't want it to be awkward. i totally hate awkward moments, so i just decided to TALK to her about it. how comfortable are you with her? is she someone that you can talk to about anything. it all depends. you could take the "go part way, let her go the other part way" if you want to make it totally romantic. i'm almost positive that she will follow your lead. if you want a surefire way to kiss her, just ask her. do it in a flirty way like telling her to close her eyes or something, that you want to give her a gift, and kiss her. i don't know man, be creative. good luck!

thanks good ideas there!

[ideasgirl]

My sister once had a book called dating for dummies, and i stole it and read it when I was like 12, and it has lots of useful tips for the first kiss... Hmm off the top of my head I think some of them were:

You can tell if she wants to kiss you if:

She keeps making eye contact with you
Notice her licking her lips
Moves closer towards you
Draws your attention to her face with her hands

Yeh I can't really remember much more. Talking to her is a good idea as staying_alive suggested, but it might kill a bit of the romance of a first kiss. I think that if she's your girlfriend then she must want to kiss you or she wouldn't have agreed to go out with you. Just go for it, chances are slim that you will be rejected.

[staying_alive]

yeah it definitely ruins the romance if you ask. but for a guy like me with low self confidence, it helped a lot. anyway, ideasgirl is right, you have a slim rejection chance: she is your girlfriend after all, she's got to want to kiss you one way or another. just go for it, if you go for romantic, listen to what ideasgirl said. if you just want to kiss her and don't care how it happens, you might consider being more obvious about it. good luck!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well for the actual kissing part, I look into her eyes long enough to figure out first of all if she WANTS a kiss (you can tell pretty easy if she wants one :D) I lean in so slowly that before they know it I'm REAL close to their face. By then a girl often starts to turn her head to the side and close her eyes and I go the rest of the way. Just remember to have fresh breath and NOT give "grandma kisses" like the ones you'd give to your mom or aunt or something. Keep your lips open slightly and soft, and sorta just let them... meet eachother. It's almost instinctual after that; I just do what my body wants me to do :D.

[Octo22]

best you mention something like I love you then go 90% in and let her come 10% coz you will know then if shes wanting to or not

I would just like to throw out there, NEVER take this advice.

Saying I love you, before even kissing a girl, just seems..bad taste? I dunno. If you haven't even kissed the person, to me that's the love of a very good friend, or a strong infatuation. Not love. Never rush the "i love you"

And the whole 90% rule is garbage. It doesn't actually mean STOP. It just means go slow, if you slowly approach and she tilts her head, she wants the kiss. If she turns away, she's not ready YET. But I do recommend going "all the way" when kissing, because it shows confidence and a hint of manly.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

QFT^^^

I do get closer and wait, just a second to see a reaction. From there I either continue to go the rest of the way, or the girl does it for me! :D

[AmethystKitty]

I guess you mean how to begin kissing

well it depends on the person your wanting to kiss...there needs to be a right moment and you shouldnt push her into it coz she might dump you otherwise. Its best you mention something like I love you then go 90% in and let her come 10% coz you will know then if shes wanting to or not



You remind me of Hitch with the whole 90%/10% thing ^^

[scatman]

good luck i think you should do that cuddling thing the girls like so much and
THEN see if she wants to kiss you or if she wants you to kiss her;)