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July 10th, 2013, 12:37 AM
Well, I've read some posts and threads, and I think I've come to know the understanding of the meaning bi-curious. But I mean, I've had plenty of girlfriends... Then again, maybe once or twice, I've had this "attraction", or whatever you wanna call it, to maybe three+ guys?? I just need some advice or somethin! Thanks! :rolleyes:

Altiier
July 10th, 2013, 12:07 PM
It's cool bro we all go through something of the sort... Im now confident that I am Bisexual, if you only feel this attraction to some boys I assume it's when you're already aroused then its probably hormones kicking up... I may be wrong, only you can know. Hope that helps :D

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July 10th, 2013, 12:39 PM
It does thanks!:D

NUGGETMAN1
July 10th, 2013, 01:13 PM
Now I don't knoe if this counts. I'm straight but I might have sex with a guy, if I know him well enough. I wouldn't kiss or anything, though.

BenjiCleland
July 10th, 2013, 03:41 PM
Just try it out with a good friend then go from there

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July 10th, 2013, 05:28 PM
That's the problem...I don't really have any "good guy friends"...

Alexo456
July 11th, 2013, 02:21 PM
I'm 14 I live in South Carolina where u live?
Kik me alexo456

pjones
July 11th, 2013, 06:38 PM
me and my best friend sucked each other once, before we could shoot, and it was great. a few of us masturbate together once in awhile and that's fun too but we all consider ourselves straight. i know i'm too young for full sex with a girl, really plan on waiting until i get married, but doing sexy stuff with my friends is so much better than just masturbating by yourself. we don't think it will change our sexuality. though at 13 we may not really know yet what our true sexuality is.

teen.jpg
July 11th, 2013, 09:26 PM
Your label isn't something to worry about. Finding a label is more like an epiphany then a choice.

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July 13th, 2013, 09:43 AM
Bringing this thread back to life...

sidecar
July 13th, 2013, 06:07 PM
Well, I'll tell you my situation to maybe give you perspective. I'm straight and my identical twin brother is bi. We share a best friend who is also bi. (we're all 13). When my brother and friend started puberty they basically fell in love and started making love. But even though I'm straight I wanted in on the action a little. So me and him have been messing around a little for a while now. But my feelings towards him aren't the same as my brother's. To me he's just a really great best buddy and we have fun wanking each other.

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July 13th, 2013, 11:05 PM
I saw your original post. Idk how I would feel about that tho...

riverboy
July 14th, 2013, 03:18 PM
hi there, i saw no one had replied and didn't want you to think no one cared, i know it's easy for me to start feeling that way.

i don't think there's anything wrong with the way you feel. i think you just need to take things as they come and see how you feel about them. maybe expose yourself to different kinds of ideas and see if you like any of them. the main thing i think is don't decide something is wrong or bad and then punish yourself for liking it. that's another thing i'm good at doing.

Says it all. Don't limit yourself or be pushed into any thing.

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July 15th, 2013, 06:38 PM
Thanks.

TheSeeker75
July 16th, 2013, 11:33 AM
Hey bud sounds like your summer break didn't start the way you would have wanted it to? Listen when your young in your teens. You most definitely have so many different feelings pulling at you from all directions. Well kid your not alone. When I turned thirteen I felt the exact same way as you. The bad thing was I didn't have anyone to talk to about it. Now in your generation you can talk to your best bud any girl will listen and help, hell your mom will help. I don't know about your father. We fathers have a real tuff time when you hear news like that coming from him. Your hormones are going nuts, trying to figure this thing out just as you are. So I would have to think just by you having thoughts about the same sex friends is nothing much to worry about. Its really normal to have these kind of thoughts or feelings. Like I said back when I had them I freaked but it all worked out. So please go talk with someone you trust now! Hope I helped ya. Like I said don't worry kid your just fine. Your not whatever you think you are ok? Have a great life and oh yeah I have never been with another dude. Other than just being friends. C ya.

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July 16th, 2013, 12:48 PM
Thank you, very much.

dailydriver
July 22nd, 2013, 11:42 PM
i dont think I have ever heard such an identical situation that someone else is going through as me... I get the same feelings, I stare at certian young men walking, ect... If you want to talk abotu it, just pm me if you like, maybe we have more in common!

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July 23rd, 2013, 12:52 AM
Ok...lol

southernguy
July 23rd, 2013, 04:36 PM
Just saw this, and I'm going through the exact same thing. Like what Natalie said, you just have to go with the flow. You are who you and nobody can change what you feel and your beliefs!

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July 23rd, 2013, 04:38 PM
Thanks bro...

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July 23rd, 2013, 05:20 PM
See guys, it happened again today. I was at a Publix and this guy walks in the front door, blonde hair with a snap back on and dark brown eyes and white shorts and a t shirt and he immediately just drew my attention I just don't know anymore....I'm so confused.

Ruairi
July 23rd, 2013, 06:31 PM
I know exactly what you mean man, I'd say your more curious than anything! I wouldn't classify you as gay in anyway and there's nothing wrong with experimenting :) Hope I helped in some way and if you have any more questions i'll gladly answer them :)

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July 23rd, 2013, 08:50 PM
This sounds weird ish if you wanna say lol, but I mean I just need to have just like one close "relationship" with a guy and I think I'll know for sure. :P

Ruairi
July 23rd, 2013, 08:53 PM
This sounds weird ish if you wanna say lol, but I mean I just need to have just like one close "relationship" with a guy and I think I'll know for sure. :P

I understand but I don't think that would be the best thing to do as it could ruin your friendship have you considered maybe camming with a guy or an online type of relationship to see if that gets you anywhere? Would prefer if you explored every option before possibly ruining a friendship

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July 23rd, 2013, 08:55 PM
I'm talking about with a guy I just "met"...

Ruairi
July 23rd, 2013, 08:57 PM
I understand that but what I am saying is that the relationship might not work but you may think he's a nice guy and could be a good friend but it's entirely up to you just don't want anybody getting hurt emotionally :)

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July 23rd, 2013, 10:10 PM
Right, but I just wouldn't really know how to keep anything subtle about it...you know what I mean?

Wisconsin
July 23rd, 2013, 11:24 PM
Now I don't knoe if this counts. I'm straight but I might have sex with a guy, if I know him well enough. I wouldn't kiss or anything, though.

You are probably the bicurious type then. Bisexual means you would date/have relationships with guys or girls. And kissing is more of a thing to do when you are interested in a relationship. Sex can be without commitments

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July 24th, 2013, 11:04 AM
I know what bisexual means but I mean I think I would have a relationship with a guy...