Need advice-GIRLS AND GUYS very personal and long

[Ineedadvice03]

Okay so about a week and a half ago a guy with the name, lets say Dylan (that's not his real name it's just to cover identity), but anyways he messaged me on twitter saying how beautiful I was and a lot of just really sweet things so I replied and said thank you and that he was really nice. Well the conversation went on for a couple hours and he asked for my iMessage, but I don't have an iMessage so he later asked for my kik and I gave him my username and soon after he messaged me. Before I gave my kik username out I asked his age, which is 17 and where he lived which is Washington and I'm in Tennessee. When he kik'd me we talked for 2 maybe 3 days and he asked if I could oovoo him so I said sure to make sure he was who he said he was and I thought it'd be fun, which he is and it was. The day after we had oovoo'd he and I started talking in a dirty way I guess but I felt really weird at first and then as we kept on it got more fun for me. He did previously tell me he was a virgin and that he'd never done any of this but he has had phone sex so I was just like oh okay nbd, shoot he even said he hasn't kissed a girl yet. Eventually we got to the point where I sent him a picture of myself without clothes, just underwear and a bra because he had previously sent me two pictures of him shirtless which let me say he has amazing abs lol. But anywaysss after I sent him a picture of me he said he was so hard and that he wished I was with him because he really likes me but this isn't all just him I'm doing the same things to him and I said I really liked him too because I feel like I do. He asked for us to become serious, what does that mean? Boyfriend and girlfriend? Idk. What I'm really wondering is if I should like him or not because of how far away he lives and on his twitter he talks to pretty much only girls and he's telling them to kik him, sometimes with a wink face. I'm a girl, I may be thinking to hard into this but idk. That's what I need you guys for. And I'm afraid to add him as a Facebook friend but I really want to kinda figure out what he's like and if he actually does like girls where he lives or not so should I like him? I really do. What do you think he means by serious? Should I send pics considering I'm 15? Should I add him on Facebook? I don't know, HELP PLEASE? Oh and he also wants to do a "naughty oovoo" like foreplaying and whatnot. And also take into consideration he has said he wants to fly here and see me.

[Harry Smith]

Be very careful with pictures, what your doing is in fact illegal due to the fact your both producing child pornography and he's also got possession of it. You have no idea who could have these photo's do you?

Don't meet up with at all, that will lead to 101 problems. You never hear people say that they met there life partner on twitter do you? To be he just sounds like a teenage boy who wants to get off as bleak as it is.

[Harley Quinn]

Never, ever, send pictures to anyone especially ones you have met online. Never cam with anyone either, it's just not right. Plus there's the whole legality issue.

[PinkFloyd]

If you decide to send the naked photos, do not include your face so that law enforcement *cough *cough NSA *cough can't prove that you;re underage.

About meeting up.. It's a risky decision. If you do, bring some sort of weapon like a knife or even a small gun for self defense. You don't know who this guy is. Ask to meet in a very public place like a mall. if you do really meet the teenager, you can't be too sure. What if the teenager is who you were talking to, but he isn't really into you. What if ends up bringing you to some creepy guy for money.

I know that sounds insane, but stuff like this happens.

[Taryn98]

I couldn't even read this. You need to break that down into paragraph structure so it's readable.

[Ineedadvice03]

Didn't feel like doing paragraphs, sorry. But I don't include my face in the photos. Also, if we were to meet up I would definitely do it in a public place and I told him my dad would be there and he said he didn't mind that. Thank you for the advice and sorry I didn't properly organize what I wrote.

[chillaxman]

Don't meet up with him. You need to cut all contact with him or keep your friendship strictly platonic. He's 17. He's old enough to know what he is doing. He is most likely taking advantage of you. It seems as if he is doing this with other girls as well. I don't think you should trust him at all. Listen to the other people in this thread. They're good at giving advice.

[Ineedadvice03]

Thank you, everyone. I definitely will cut all contact and not meet up. X