Can I have some help please?

[Jamie Creek]

Me and my girlfriend recently got into some trouble with her parents. I was out of town and she wanted to surprise me by sending me a picture of her laying in her bed with nothing but her bra and panties on and she started sexting me and the next day her mom decided to pull a surprise phone check without her knowing or even being around for it. Now she's grounded from the computer and phone for a month and her mom won't let me even explain myself, she blocked my number, and I don't even know what's going through her dads head. I just don't know what to do for making up for a mistake and trying to get them to put all the blame on me so she's not in so much trouble...

Can I please get some help or advice... or even what to do... I'm at the point where I don't know what the hell to do and I haven't gotten any sleep since it happened... and I just feel like she's getting the shorter end of the shovel because she has to live with them...

[Cooper197]

I don't know what her parents are like, so this may not be the best idea but it's at least something to think about.
When you know her parents are home, go to her house and of course they will be mad and tell you that you cannot see her, to which your response would be that you are there to see them not her. If you still have the texts saved on your phone and how they started, you'll have proof on your end, assuming you truly didn't ask for them. Just try and talk to them, tell them the truth and show them the conversation, then in front of them delete all of it. Make sure the conversation is gone, the pictures are gone, all of it. Do it where they can see it is gone. You wouldn't want them thinking you are saving them...it won't help much to get her out of trouble, but at least it might clear the air and make it so that when her punishment is through, you can still be together since it sounds like at this point they wouldn't let you. Biggest thing though, is go talk to them face to face. Look nice, but don't go overboard to try and impress them, they can smell BS. So don't wear a suit unless you normally would, just look very presentable and if you really wanted to get somewhere take her mom flowers as an apology, even though you didn't really do much wrong here from the sounds of things.

Maybe her parents are the kind that would literally kill you if you did this, in which case, bad idea. I just know that most people, especially in this case her dad, are probably going to give you a little respect and at least hear you out if you are willing to go talk to them face to face.

Good luck.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

nMe and my girlfriend recently got into some trouble with her parents. I was out of town and she wanted to surprise me by sending me a picture of her laying in her bed with nothing but her bra and panties on and she started sexting me and the next day her mom decided to pull a surprise phone check without her knowing or even being around for it. Now she's grounded from the computer and phone for a month and her mom won't let me even explain myself, she blocked my number, and I don't even know what's going through her dads head. I just don't know what to do for making up for a mistake and trying to get them to put all the blame on me so she's not in so much trouble...

Can I please get some help or advice... or even what to do... I'm at the point where I don't know what the hell to do and I haven't gotten any sleep since it happened... and I just feel like she's getting the shorter end of the shovel because she has to live with them...

The previous comment is too movie-like for me...Honestly I don't think there is much you can do to get her out of trouble or even to make them to like you again.
You have to understand how they feel....their little girl is sending that kind od pics to a boy Well, that is a shock for them, indeed.
What would get her out of trouble is her apologising to them and telling she realizes how stupid she was for doing that (evem though it's a normal thing to do nowdays, but her parents probably think that was a stupid thing to do).

If you really want to do sth you could go and apologize yourself by calling them over the phone or coming to their house, but really what would you say?! Sorry that your daughter sent me those photos and texts? Telling them about that one more time will just make them more angry.
They are her parents and they just want the best for her, I really think it would be the best to stay out of it. I think they will let you see each other again once the punishment is over as long as she says she's sorry and it won't happen again. After some time she could maybe incite you to meet them if you still didn't.

Anyways the thing is: wait for that punishment to be over

[Jamie Creek]

Thanks, I solved the problem though :) it wasn't easy but we were forgiven right away XD