Help with this decision, please.

[Aidoon123]

Okay, I am 14 and I have a crush, on a guy. I have had loads of crushes on guys, but this one feels different, he is nice, he actually talks to me, he is ACTUALLY nice and so cute, I can't help but smile when I think of him, I don't turn into a blubbering idiot around him either, it's just perfect. This emotion is so over-powering that I want to tell someone, these few people that I can tell know him, and could (if they wanted) expose me, for liking him. I want to know, should I confide in one of these people. This feels so, powerful, that I really 100% need to tell someone!! Tell me, should I or should I not tell this person? It would feel better... Or should I even tell the crush himself? I'm just confused, and need help... a bit more info. He is 13, and he rated my personality 11/10 and said I was hilarious! He always smiles at me, and we get along well. If any of this helps determine...

[Eupher]

First is he gay? Second if he is it sounds like he has a crush on you too so Tell him you like him and ask him out.

[Aidoon123]

First is he gay? Second if he is it sounds like he has a crush on you too so Tell him you like him and ask him out.

He is definitely not gay, this is my problem, he is probably 100% straight but I just feel so compelled to tell him...

[Eupher]

Just tell him if he is a true friend he won't mind and who knows maybe he is in the closet bi-sexual.

[Aidoon123]

Just tell him if he is a true friend he won't mind and who knows maybe he is in the closet bi-sexual.

Haha, I wish :P

[Catholic Guy]

Well I wouldn't say that necessarily means he likes us that way as well, if he says all of that good stuff about why don't you invite him around for a sleepover or something? But I don't think you should tell anyone that knows him

[johnsmith1]

If you feel you can trust him, tell him. If you're worried telling someone else, and him finding out, it's the easiest way.

[Soldier212]

You should tell him but first make sure you have sworn him that no matter what you are about to say it wouldn't effect your friendship. Then tell him

[Morgoth42]

Test the waters, is he gay? Does he like you back? Date. Simple worst case scenario you could always see if he's be willing to try somethings with you.

[lumberturd]

Just tell him your gay and see how he reacts to that

[Kjack31]

If he isn't gay and you tell him he might get scared (no offense, I have nothing against being gay) or angry.

[CosmicNoodle]

Just tell him and think all the time you are doing it "If he says no who will remember in 2 years?"
Hope it turns out well for you!

[AlexC]

Try and ask/tell him really but not in a direct way. If he says 'no' to you then what's the worse that could happen.

[wish_master_TWA]

Just tell him you're gay and see how he takes that :) It can't hurt. From there work to telling him you like him, just make it's the right time. TIMING. IS. KEY. ;)

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

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If he's straight, then just move on. No good comes out of pursuing a straight guy, trust me when I tell you that.