Help me with a decision, please

[Aidoon123]

Okay, I am 14 and I have a crush, on a guy. I have had loads of crushes on guys, but this one feels different, he is nice, he actually talks to me, he is ACTUALLY nice and so cute, I can't help but smile when I think of him, I don't turn into a blubbering idiot around him either, it's just perfect. This emotion is so over-powering that I want to tell someone, these few people that I can tell know him, and could (if they wanted) expose me, for liking him. I want to know, should I confide in one of these people. This feels so, powerful, that I really 100% need to tell someone!! Tell me, should I or should I not tell this person? It would feel better... Or should I even tell the crush himself? I'm just confused, and need help...:what:

Also, a bit more info. He is 13, and he rated my personality 11/10 and said I was hilarious! He always smiles at me, and we get along well. If any of this helps determine...

[KieranRules]

dude I'm your age and I am exactly where you are but I told my guy and well he just went with it and we're still friends but we a getting closer, you may want to try the same thing.

[Aidoon123]

Anyone else? I really need this help. I need to know before Monday

[jayjay's toocool]

Idk how this works but I've had crushes on a person before and I ended up wanting to tell them and never did

[steellord321]

If your main concern is exposure, you might as well just tell him yourself. Telling others first carries the same risk, unless you know they won't react badly.

[killer123]

You need to risc and tell him

[williamgarlok]

I think if you love him and want to go ahead with him then you should tell him about your position at the right time. So if he also loves you then he can understand your feeling and situation also. So try once and wait for a positive response.

[lukene]

Anyone else? I really need this help. I need to know before Monday
It depends, if you were to tell him and he were to tell other people and "out" you how much would that affect you? And if you were to tell a friend, how much do you trust them?
Tell us how it went if you chose to tell anyone. ��

[bimusic]

Follow your heart and you will do the right thing

[Morgoth42]

I'd say go for it. Even if he isn't gay/BI by the information given it shouldn't matter to him. You are still yourself.

[Hermes96]

tell him your self or it will be way worse if someone else tells him for you and i no where you're coming from i went through the same thing with my friend tom 2 years ago and were still great mates even closer in fact

[Aidoon123]

Hey guys, I have an update. I wasn't able to tell him.. I tried, on several occasions, but I was too scared to say it, I said 'Ily' to him once (as a joke) and he gave me the 'wtf' face, which I must say is SO SO cute, he is SO SO cute!! Sorry, but things have kind of turned around, instead of liking a 13 year old lad, my attentions have turned to a 17 year old girl... long story haha

[teen.jpg]

I'm gonna say this the harshest way possible ... get over it. If he's straight then no good will come out of that situation, so don't make it worse by telling him. Trust me, I've been there.

You should value your friendship more then you're feelings for him.

[Toptoptop]

Hey if you like him then do it! If people judge you.. Oh well! They have to deal with it

[dailydriver]

hah, Im right there with you man...

[Ben4ever]

Follow your heart and you will do the right thing

Seriously! Do it!

[AyVannah]

Hey guys, I have an update. I wasn't able to tell him.. I tried, on several occasions, but I was too scared to say it, I said 'Ily' to him once (as a joke) and he gave me the 'wtf' face, which I must say is SO SO cute, he is SO SO cute!! Sorry, but things have kind of turned around, instead of liking a 13 year old lad, my attentions have turned to a 17 year old girl... long story haha

Interesting... As bad as this sounds... If you end up telling her you like her? She might just say "cute" or something and that's it...:/. That's generally how girls are...x.x'
I am one and me, personally, probly wouldn't do that. But most girls I know would... So be careful.