I am Confused :S

[XjojosX]

Hi everyone :) as the title says i am kinda confused because i am between 2 girls and i don't know what to do :/ and i would like your help so please help me as much as you can :( . I am in love with a girl younger than me and i have tell her my feeling but she doesn't want to date me because she see me as her best friend and nothing else and now she has a bf and she tell me that she love s him a lot but she cheated on him twice ( she tell me everything and she walk around with underwear too .. she feel so comfy with me and i am always making her smile and laugh and she always want to spend time with me ). And there is the other girls that a few weeks ago she told me that she likes me and and she liked me in that past too but i didn't pay any attention to her and we are talking and have fun and i like her a lot because she is kinda good to me and sweet . My problem is that i don't know what to do date the girls that told me that she likes me and let the other girl as a friend or try to forget her or wait for the other girl to change opinion? ( i say that because some things that she did shows me kinda that she is jealous and she likes me for example when she learned about the other girl that like me she got jealous and she told me that its not true and to be careful ... i really don't know what to do any opinions?

p.s i hope you understand me problem if you want you can ask me anything

[isiah_]

I'd say you'll have luck with the second one. Good luck, man!

[Cinderella96]

It's hard to change her mind when she have already said that you are her best friend. If she said that, I'm pretty sure she can't see you as something more. Go with the second girl.
Good luck :)

[XjojosX]

It's hard to change her mind when she have already said that you are her best friend. If she said that, I'm pretty sure she can't see you as something more. Go with the second girl.
Good luck :)

Thanks :) but how you explain her reaction when he learned about the other girl?? she got kinda angry and she doesn't let me go t o meet her ( the other girls is far away now and we are planning to meet soon )

[unnamed94]

go for the second one. you both like each other and you have fun with her. on the other hand, your first crush cheated on her current bf. do you really want that for yourself?

[Cinderella96]

Thanks :) but how you explain her reaction when he learned about the other girl?? she got kinda angry and she doesn't let me go t o meet her ( the other girls is far away now and we are planning to meet soon )

Well yeah she seems a little bit jealous. It can be cause she's afraid to lose you ( you won't have time for her and stuff like that) but on the other hand she may like you but she's not aware of that. Maybe you should talk to her and see if she really sees you as a friend or something more :)

[jayjay's toocool]

date the girls that told me that she likes me and let the other girl as a friend or try to forget her or wait for the other girl to change opinion? Pretty obvious the best friend doesn't see you like that. I know its hard but let her be your friend because its what you both need. The other girl is in love with you is she not your type or what's the other dilemma? If none def say go with her sir!

[XjojosX]

Well yeah she seems a little bit jealous. It can be cause she's afraid to lose you ( you won't have time for her and stuff like that) but on the other hand she may like you but she's not aware of that. Maybe you should talk to her and see if she really sees you as a friend or something more :)

well i always have time for my friends and i will not stop spend time with her but if she don't want to loose me because she is afraid of stop spending time with is not kinda selfish? i dont know :/

[Cinderella96]

well i always have time for my friends and i will not stop spend time with her but if she don't want to loose me because she is afraid of stop spending time with is not kinda selfish? i dont know :/
Yeah it is kinda selfish. The best way to find out what she thinks and feels, is to
talk to her.