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handle with care
July 6th, 2013, 03:15 AM
i have been setting up drug deals for my dad who sells weed but i don't want to do it any more how should i tell him i don't care that he sells but i don't feel right doing it anymore i'm sick of having to lie to my mom about why i have people coming over at unusual times with crazy excuses like we're discussing a school project or be afraid of some one i don't want to know answering my phone and finding out please help me

OrKing
July 6th, 2013, 05:20 AM
I think the answer to this is dependent on what your relationship with your dad is like mate. So that people may give better, more relevant and hopefully more helpful answers, what is your relationship with your dad like?

Nellerin
July 6th, 2013, 12:33 PM
i have been setting up drug deals for my dad who sells weed but i don't want to do it any more how should i tell him i don't care that he sells but i don't feel right doing it anymore i'm sick of having to lie to my mom about why i have people coming over at unusual times with crazy excuses like we're discussing a school project or be afraid of some one i don't want to know answering my phone and finding out please help me

Louisiana (which your profile says you are from) does have some of the harshest drug laws regarding Marijuana. Meaning that your dad can go to jail for six months even if he has less than 60lbs (which I am guessing he does.)

Tell him to stop and just tell him that you do not feel like participating in something that is currently illegal (whether it should be illegal or not.)

Miserabilia
July 6th, 2013, 01:40 PM
okay, in my opinion,
that's just really, really, really, wrong!!!!!
How can your dad just make you help him with his illegal drugs dealing?
If he forces you to do it, in your situation I would just report him! If not, your jsut going to get dragged deeper into that mess!

handle with care
July 6th, 2013, 03:33 PM
my dad is like a friend to me and he didn't force me to do anything but i just don't feel right doing it anymore

isiah_
July 6th, 2013, 03:36 PM
my dad is like a friend to me and he didn't force me to do anything but i just don't feel right doing it anymore

I think you should let him know how you feel.

handle with care
July 6th, 2013, 03:43 PM
I think you should let him know how you feel.

i think that would probably be my best option

isiah_
July 6th, 2013, 03:50 PM
i think that would probably be my best option

If you need any help or need someone to talk to, just PM me, man!

Nellerin
July 6th, 2013, 05:17 PM
okay, in my opinion,
that's just really, really, really, wrong!!!!!
How can your dad just make you help him with his illegal drugs dealing?
If he forces you to do it, in your situation I would just report him! If not, your jsut going to get dragged deeper into that mess!

Lol, report him for selling Weed (the least harmful drug in the entire world) that is more messed up than them selling together.

He should not keep selling but he should not report him for something that will be legal in a couple of years.

Cinderella96
July 6th, 2013, 05:40 PM
You should definitely talk to your dad and let him know how you feel about it. If he's your friend as you say, I'm sure he will understand.

handle with care
July 7th, 2013, 11:49 PM
i'm happy to say i told my dad how i felt and he understood.

Toptoptop
July 17th, 2013, 11:16 AM
Tell him how you feel and you want to stop

shinodas
July 18th, 2013, 09:48 AM
Lol guys, some of your advice made my brain fart

Swagging god
July 20th, 2013, 06:29 AM
Lol don't report him its harmless, but tell him that you don't feel right doing it anymore and just let him know how you feel about the situation.

Its Pretty
July 21st, 2013, 12:17 AM
Honestly if I were you (which I sadly am not) I would call the cops the moment I found out he sold. Granted, the punishment wouldn't nearly be anywhere close to acceptable, but it is the best solution short of putting him down (which is a much more acceptable and efficient punishment for such a terrible crime)

Allain1996
July 21st, 2013, 03:46 AM
Reporting him for selling Weed (the least harmful drug in the entire world) that is more messed up than them selling it.

It doesn't matter how harmful (or not harmful) marijuana is, as it is still very illegal, and he and his Dad could get in a lot of trouble on drug charges!

I'm happy to say I told my dad how I felt and he understood.

Since nobody else seems to have acknowledged this yet, I would like to be the first to say that I am extremely happy to hear that you told your dad about your feelings! Also, it's very good that your dad saw your feelings and respected them! That definitely says something about the kind of man that he is, drug dealer or not, that he has a mutual friendship based on respect with you!
Good job for standing for what you believe in before something bad happened to you! :)