Tired of Being Single / Lonely at Night

[joshual3]

I am a 20 year old gay guy and I have never been in a relationship... and I honestly hate being single. It really hasn't bothered me until recently, though. I go out on dates, but nothing ever works out. And again, it hasn't bothered me too much. Simply because I know I am young and have all the time in the world to find someone. The thing is, I am perfectly fine during the day. I work, hang out with friends, and keep busy. Then bedtime comes. That is when it hits. I just want someone to cuddle up in bed with every night. I just want someone to hold or better yet, someone to hold me. It gets to me because that is all I want... along with all the other things that come with a relationship of course.

The bad thing is, I tend to avoid going to sleep at a decent hour most nights because I don't like being reminded that I don't have someone to cuddle up with. And the nights when I do try to go to sleep early, I lay in bed for quite a while because not having someone there gets to me.

I just don't understand why it gets to me THAT bad. Is that normal? I don't even know what to do about it.

[indoxyl]

I guess it is kind of "normal." You don't think about the situation during the day because youre always working or with friends, keeping yourself busy ans whatnot. But during the night you have time to yourself to think and then the fact youre alone kinda hits you hard.

I really cant give you much advice, but i really hope you get out of this funk of yours because you seem like a decent guy who deserves a decent guy.

[Crush1230]

Try using a wingman to see about it- maybe even try one of her friends ask them to see how she feels about u

[Crush1230]

Oh sorry wrong thread