New Boyfriend?

[candabear17]

I've been dating this guy named Justin for about a month and a half now. We're not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, but I think it might happen soon. The problem is, I have PTSD, unipolar depression, and Psychosis and I haven't told him yet. I've had a long history of cutting and I attempted suicide last October. I'm doing a lot better now but I'm worried about how he will react. I know that if he truly cared about me, he would only get upset and be worried but I don't want that. I don't want him thinking of me like I'm crazy or unstable. I don't even know when the best time to tell him would be. Any advice on this would be awesome. :/

[Ryuun]

you should tell him and if he stays then he is worth it if he doesnt then his not worth it

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hey, i would tell him, i hope he understands, p.s i'm sure he could support you :)

[ArisHere]

He will take care of you if he really deserves you .

[PinkFloyd]

You need to tell him. If he dumps you because of something like that, he is not worth it.

[ajp1993]

you should tell him and if he stays then he is worth it if he doesnt then his not worth it

Hey, i would tell him, i hope he understands, p.s i'm sure he could support you :)

He will take care of you if he really deserves you .

You need to tell him. If he dumps you because of something like that, he is not worth it.

Exactly what these guys have said. If he's worth you time, etc, he'll stay. It's better he learn this now whilst the relationship's young then find out later on, when it'll potentially hurt you both more.

[Abgail 16]

A lot depends on how old and how mature he is,if you feel he can cope with it,you should tell him,if he's the right guy for you it could bring you closer.

[NUGGETMAN1]

Tell him you need to talk to him in private, and tell him then. If he loves you, he'll understand, and constantly check on you o make sure you're ok. Tell us how it goes.

[Altiier]

I went through a similar situation with my current GF... All I can say is the sooner the better, regardless of how he reacts thats something he needs to know about early in the relationship. Imagine telling him after like 6 months "Oh and by the way I have several mental health disorders and I cut". I told haley really early on and it turns out she cut too we cuddled and comforted each other for hours, that was the most passionate night Ive ever experienced, its been going great ever since... Sometimes past hardships can strengthen current relationships. Good luck, I hope that helps :D

[colepuck]

As all before me have said, it's best to just tell him. If he leaves you over it, he isn't worth being with an honest and trusting person.