ONS with best friend

[Thorn181]

Hello Community!

some time ago, I had kind of a one-night-stand with my best friend ...
short background: my best friend was often visiting me on the weekend, staying from friday to sunday, just to drink, play and laugh, like it ever was ...
but when he came last time, we, especially me, drunk too much and we were awake whole night (I have a blackout of 6 hours), but after I start to remember, we were starting to hug, kiss and touching each other ...
I am sure you know how it ended ...
We woke up six hours later, together and naked in bed (not drunken anymore) and did it again, after we lunched he left me and went home.
We talked about it on the other day, nobody of us had feelings for the other, it was just sex and nothing else, but we haven´t met since it happens and we don´t talk much anymore ... but when we talk we feel that there is something between us ...
oh and btw: He is straight, maybe a bit confusing, but he says he was completely drunken ...

I really don´t know how to get over it, because we already talked about it ...

Any advices?


Greetings
Thorn

[DerBear]

The sad things is, its something that you might never get over and I have to say this, not because I want to bring you down or I want to make anyone sad but the truth is, sometimes things like this aren't recoverable and their will always be a sense of weirdness between two friends, especially if they were best friends before hand.

My advice would be to talk to him and just say if you want to discuss what happened then let's do so. However if he doesn't then tell him you don't want any awkward feelings and you just want to put that one night stand behind you because you don't want it to effect your friendship.

Other that I don't have any other advice. I guess communication is the key.

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Talk to him about it and try to clear the air.

[Sharona]

That's why ONS's and random sex is bad

[Thorn181]

Actually it wasn´t planned :D
But we already talked about it, mroe then one time :/

It would make me sad if the friendship would broke because of this drunken shit ... :(