Help now plz plz plz

[Imaustinigeuss]

Ok ima keep this quick but :'( my new bf is in the hospital cuz he tired to kill him self I didn't ask very many questions this is what I know and plz help plz plz ok here we go ~~ all I know is - his freind sky found him- he tried I my cutting and hainging - and the reason is he can't stand it any more (he doesn't get bullied and he has a good family so idk) and he said he doesn't know who he loves and wel what should I do I'm not gonna break up with him that's never gonna happen :'( what should I do I mean it easier to help ppl when ur there with them I've helped my freind and now her and I r like huge freinds (she was sucidal and tried 14 times she couldn't get the rope tied and other stuff thankfully she didnt) but yea what should I do

[HockeyLovesMe]

hey austin huggzzzzzzzzzzz (L) but its soooooooo hard because u have like no control all you can do is be there for them when they are ready to talk but you do have to understand you can not actually fix them... maybe go online and look for support groups he can go to my one friend alex did that for my other friend and it helped him

so ya be there for him but never blame youself if anything bad happens all you can do s your best and i know u will do that because u are a super great and caring person :)

[answers-101]

not sure if this kind of post is allowed, but i'd recommend that u get him laid - show him that he is wanted, and that u want to spend time with him. believe me when i say that commitment to even one person can encourage anyone to hold on. when ur in his state, a tiny glimmer of light is a salvation ;)

[Imaustinigeuss]

not sure if this kind of post is allowed, but i'd recommend that u get him laid - show him that he is wanted, and that u want to spend time with him. believe me when i say that commitment to even one person can encourage anyone to hold on. when ur in his state, a tiny glimmer of light is a salvation ;)

Over Internet

[DerBear]

not sure if this kind of post is allowed, but i'd recommend that u get him laid - show him that he is wanted, and that u want to spend time with him. believe me when i say that commitment to even one person can encourage anyone to hold on. when ur in his state, a tiny glimmer of light is a salvation ;)

Really, Sex is going to solve this problem? Evidently their is a reason why this guy is attempting suicide and I don't think having sex with him is a long term solution.

Over Internet

If your relationship is over the internet I guess all you can do is talk to him and be their for him, talk to him every single possible chance you can get and be supportive.

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Be there to support him. He probably needs you.

[benjisea]

Support him. Be there for him. Show that you care and that you love him. Love him so he begins to love himself.

Do you have any more details as in to why he is being suicidal?

I know depression mostly comes from not loving yourself. Loving yourself is like the biggest lesson people will need to know in life. Notify some people and make people aware that he needs help! I don't know your situation okay but I would say something like, "It's very hard and I understand but you have to keep going. There is so much opportunities in life that you're missing."

There's a lot more I can say but I'll leave it there for now.

[nice]

Ok ima keep this quick but :'( my new bf is in the hospital cuz he tired to kill him self I didn't ask very many questions this is what I know and plz help plz plz ok here we go ~~ all I know is - his freind sky found him- he tried I my cutting and hainging - and the reason is he can't stand it any more (he doesn't get bullied and he has a good family so idk) and he said he doesn't know who he loves and wel what should I do I'm not gonna break up with him that's never gonna happen :'( what should I do I mean it easier to help ppl when ur there with them I've helped my freind and now her and I r like huge freinds (she was sucidal and tried 14 times she couldn't get the rope tied and other stuff thankfully she didnt) but yea what should I do

You could leave him a bunch of little messages telling him how much you love him. Or just send him cute things through out the day to show him how much he means to you me just tell him you love and care about him and wouldn't know what to do if he was gone. Just try to be there for them even if he tries to push you away :hug: :hug: I hope everything will be just fine