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Infamous Eric
July 5th, 2013, 02:31 AM
So i'm dating this girl we've been together for a year and a half. She's obsessed with kpop and those kpop celebrities(men), and she use to spam that stuff like there's no tomorrow on facebook it annoyed the crap out of me because it was always about their looks and their sexiness.

I confronted her about it and she stopped a bit, but if you go on her blogs she has all of the same things but 100x more of it. I've never seen someone so obsessed over something in my life. Is this a normal girl thing or is this a red flag?

katiebearr
July 5th, 2013, 03:08 AM
Haha I can get pretty obsessed with things also. I am madly in love with Marilyn Manson. That's pretty much all my Facebook and blog is about.
I don't think it's a red flag.
Everyone has their own interests and some people are more into things than other people n.n

GamerGuy09
July 5th, 2013, 04:56 AM
Even though I'm a guy, I don't see the problem with your situation. Who cares if she says some random singers are sexy. You probably do that with other singers/actresses/models. Also you can just not look at the things she says.

DerBear
July 5th, 2013, 05:39 AM
Questions for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

My personal advice would be you really can't dictate what she's into as long as it isn't harming the relationship or her.

Cinderella96
July 5th, 2013, 08:38 AM
Not a red flag definitely :)

Synyster Shadows
July 5th, 2013, 09:16 AM
I don't see a problem with it, dude. She likes what she likes. As long it doesn't get in the way of the relationship, no problems

loliqueen123
July 5th, 2013, 01:27 PM
It is the same fantasy a dude might have with Kate Upton or another celebrity. Just know that she knows it will never happen, no matter how many blogs she has.

Infamous Eric
July 5th, 2013, 01:31 PM
I'm not trying to control her I was just wondering if it was normal, because I never dated or known anyone who was this obsessed with something in my life. :eek: I thought the obsession was caused by a lack of something I wasn't giving her.

teen.jpg
July 5th, 2013, 03:50 PM
You sir, need to get up from the rock you're living under. EVERY teenage girl is like that, maybe not for KPop artists though.

I'm assuming you aren't a user of twitter? You twitter people know what I mean :)

SoccerGirl77
July 6th, 2013, 12:41 PM
its totally normal...just bc shes obsessed with sum celb, she knows she'll never be with him, its just fantasy, not reality

Croconaw
July 6th, 2013, 04:08 PM
:PNot a red flag

jayjay's toocool
July 6th, 2013, 07:09 PM
Not a red flag from a guy I know its annoying but also she's a girl so she has her male celeb crushes

azngurl
July 12th, 2013, 05:48 AM
It's just a phase, dude. She'll grow out of it