im having trouble with my b/f...help

[lucy_loo]

Well I've been with my b/f for over 9 months and I love him very much. But sometimes I feel trapped and like he doesn't want me going out anywhere else and when I do he gets mad. We have our problems but we get over it. I cant seem to get mad at him alot even if he does something wrong and when I do he just ends up getting mad! I dont want to brake up with him I love him too much but what should I do?
please help me.

[byee]

How old are you, Lucy? Too young for marriage or a more permanent committment? Dating is supposed to be fun. When it's no longer fun, when the other person makes you feel really bad, then it's time to move on. Even if you 'love' him, if there's as much grief as good, it's time to say good bye. At least for awhile.


Dating serves a valuable function, it allows you to 'experiment' with other people, to find out what they're like, what works for you, and what doesn't. The 'experiment' allows you to clarify what it is you find desirable in a (future) mate or life partner. It isn't an opportunity to make up for not having something from the past, nor should someone hold on for dear life because they're terrified to be alone. If it's outlived it's usefulness, if it feels constricting, or limiting, if you're 'afraid' or stressed out, then you might be hanging on for the wrong reasons.

[jay92]

Well with my girlfriend i always get curious of where she goes etc. Not the one to cheat cos she isnt like that. But im always curious of who she hangs out with, specially boys.

But i love it when my girl reminds me that im the one she is going out with, not the other guys. that im the special one.

It makes me feel good and then i dont worry about anyone else.

goodluck

[scatman]

us guys have a strong sense of protection to our girlsfriends

[Half Angel]

Just talk to him about it sensibly. Say to him that it is getting out of hand and you need your own freedom. Say that you love him to much to do anything stupid and if he loves you back he will trust you.

If not, you'll have to break up. You can't feel bad like this-being a teenager is a time of experimenting. Your friends are important so you have to spend time with them.