Shy Bladder

[Montreal1993]

I have shy bladder. Is there s way to get over it? Any advice?

[gotstyle]

I do also and every one says just don't think about it when ur peeing

[ThE DopEsT]

I have this too and it's awful. :( Umm I just do math problems in my head lol, like I try to distract myself and not focus so much on peeing. It has helped before.

[Sethm]

I can start to pee and someone will walk right next to the urinal beside me and I just have to fake like I'm done. At my old school there were no dividers and you'd be like a foot away from each other. I always wanted to sneak peeks but was afraid of getting caught. I know this one kid looked at my penis. I was peeing and he came in and walked up to the one beside me and looked me in the eyes and I turned my head away from but not far enough to where I couldn't see his head and I saw look down at my penis while I finished up.

[Seth.]

I enjoy letting others see me pee. I undo my pants and open them enough to where I'm fully exposed if they want to watch.

[ImBiFurious]

When I get shy about my bladder, I call my parents while peeing, and I tell them about what its like to be socially awkward only when peeing, it really helps.

[NeuroTiger]

I get that too...it's so awkward.

[DerBear]

Its a natural reaction, especially if you're slightly self concious person. The best thing to do would be either not to use urinals or if you have to use them, try going to a urinal nearest the wall and always leave a gap between you and someone else.

[Trenton_]

I have shy bladder. Is there s way to get over it? Any advice?

I do also and every one says just don't think about it when ur peeing

I have this too and it's awful. :( Umm I just do math problems in my head lol, like I try to distract myself and not focus so much on peeing. It has helped before.

I get that too...it's so awkward.

I'd yell at my bladder until he did what i wanted

[nfs4394]

I have a shy bladder too. It's just something you've got to deal with. I always try to go when I know no one else is in the bathroom, but obviously that's not always the case. If worse comes to worse, I just leave a space between me and the next guy and hope for the best

[Lost in the Echo]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: VT General Hospital.
You'll get better answers here. :)

[Giles]

I had this problem for a while but I 'solved' it by just purposefully putting myself in positions where I would need to piss in front of other people. For example, I'd use a urinal if there were cubicles free, piss outside if it was appropriate etc. I'm not saying this will work for you but it might be worth a try if nothing else works.

[Zanman11]

I have one too, I just use a urinal and put my dick in more and more view until I'll feel completely comfortable

[RyanCrest]

Ya i know what you mean, I sometimes think, "Are they listening to me pee", but i just stare at the wall and relax, that usually helps

[DanteZombie]

A LOT of people share the same problem. Just getting use to going around guys is the only way. Nothign bad though.

[Surreal]

Yea. A lot of people have this problem.
A lot of people do something called a 'courtesy flush.' It's basically when you flush your toilet so you can let go without others hearing.

Hope this helps,
- Amy