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AriannaKitten
July 4th, 2013, 12:55 AM
Last year, I lost a friend of mine who was 18...
I cried a bit, I was shocked and .. I just didn't think someone like that could happen...
Then, this year... another friend of mine died.. in a car accident.. It broke me... It seriously broke me.. for days I cried, screamed, and threw tantrums..
It happened about 4 months ago and I still cry almost every night.. some days I'll be totally fine and then the next I'll sit in my room crying ..
No one knows how hard it hit me.. and I can't talk to anyone about it because I live in a small town... and it kind of hit anyone... ://
I don't know what to do anymore... I feel unbearable pain and sadness...
I miss Micalah and Cynthia.. :/
Miserabilia
July 4th, 2013, 02:00 AM
thats so sad! rip for your friends.
It sounds like you are going through grief like you should... Just hope it gets better soon
AriannaKitten
July 4th, 2013, 02:29 PM
thats so sad! rip for your friends.
It sounds like you are going through grief like you should... Just hope it gets better soon
Thanks for your wishes..
The-Chosen-Hero
July 8th, 2013, 03:46 AM
Losing someone close to you hurts.. We can only honor those who has gone before us, by trying to live to our fullest measure. For yourself and for the loves ones. Just know that others are feeling your pain so don't be shame at all to show your feelings to others. Remember the good times you had with them with a smile and not let the world bring you down.
Abgail 16
July 8th, 2013, 08:35 AM
I.m really sorry to hear about that.
Maybe being here will help a bit.
Cece14
July 8th, 2013, 02:10 PM
Crying is good! Cry more! and sorry about your friends......
NightingaleBlue
July 12th, 2013, 07:51 PM
I lost my family dog recently. It had been 5 weeks or so since I'd last seen her. She ended up having surgery for an infected uterus and died the next day. We'd had her for 9 years. I cried non stop for the whole entire weekend. It got to a point where I was getting dehydrated from the crying so I ended up playing a video game of mine non stop for like 4 days straight to distract me from crying.
I'm so sorry about your friends. I still get sad for my dog when I think about her. It's hard when you lose someone close to you. The fact that you're crying for them means they profoundly touched your life. Remember that if they touched your life then you touched theirs and that they would have had good memories to draw upon in their final moments. I found putting together a collection of items that reminded me of my grandma helped after she pasted away and collecting photos of my dog has also helped. Only time can help you heal from the loss. When you no longer cry, you'll be ready to move forward. Till then do what you must to remember your friends and honour their memory. They're not in pain anymore and I believe when your time comes that you'll get to see them again.
The sun will come out and shine again for you. Just take each day as it comes and do what you need to to cope with the loss of your friends. I wish you the best of luck and my prays are with you. May Your friends Rest In Peace!!!
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