is it weird?

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

It's not weird, you are fine :)
It is just really surprising- most here since to start a few years either side of 12
It's understandable if you don't have an older sister or are from a conservative family etc

Congratulations on your big step though

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

Well have fun learning :D
You're gonna love it

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

How did she teach you by the way?
Demonstrated on herself or hands on you?

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

That's really cool, she sounds like a really good friend - I learned how similarly when I was 11 on a summer camp

[graci]

O ur perfectly fine just depends wat I've been raised around lol

[CassieWTF]

Ok so first, hi I'm Danielle and I'm new here and have a few questions. I was having a sleepover at friends house a few days ago and after a while we were talking and she said that she masturbates and stuff but i didn't even know what that was or anything and she ended up showing me how to and now I think its awesome. But she was really surprised that i didn't know what masturbating was or anything and now I'm wondering is it weird that I never knew about it or did it up until now? Sorry if my posts kind of long.
How and when did you discover this forum?

[Sharona]

How and when did you discover this forum?

Maybe her friend recommended it?

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

Cool :)

[Juana]

It's nothing to be ashamed, when you find it out a little bit later than some other girl(s) and I can understand when you're only child. You will find out how much fun we girls can have and I learned a lot from my older sister, who's already married. She's very free about such things.

:yummy:

[Dannibabi]

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[Nikkineedsmore]

I'm glad you found this site! You can learn a lot here I think, esp that you are not alone if you think something is weird or odd or you're just curious :)

[AnnaLei]

First she just sort of told me but it ended up progressing into her helping on me.

Did you end up having an orgasm? :)

[Dannibabi]

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[Sharona]

Such s great friend!

[Kristin_97]

Not Weird at all. I think lot of guys and girls just sort of figure it out by accident, but I don't think it matters how you find out.

[lilmisslucylee]

First she just sort of told me but it ended up progressing into her helping on me.
No it's not weird everyone learns at there own pace, and yeah this site has given me awesome answers and advice.
As for masturbating with friends i find it totally normal, and i do it also.

[randomnessqueen]

i learned at a really young age, but its normal just not hear about it for a long time.
a lot of people just arent comfortable talking about it, so it doesnt come up

[Amber Bi]

i don't think you are weired. and now that u have discovered it...it's a totally normal reaction to LOVE it.
M-bateing with friends can be fun. BUT only do what YOU are comfortable with

[GigglyAbby]

As stated -- it's not weird and honestly there are girls and boys that don't masturbate because of religion or myths that discuss possible dangers of masturbating. On a side note -- during my sex-ed discussions in school -- the topic of masturbation was discussed and how healthy it is [though techniques and what not weren't discussed.]

[ElliEvens]

Hi Danielle, I don't think it's strange at all especially if you are an only and your parents are kinda prudish. I would just say now that you have found out get to know things and like don't be scared or embarrassed. I mean your body is yours. Look at it touch it explore it and when you find something you like do more of it. Haha that's my motto. Hope you enjoy the learning if you have any question this is a good place to ask.

[Dannibabi]

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[Gajomc]

Yes :)

That is really awesome. Was so long ago I had my first orgasm, I don't really remember. What was going through your mind when it happened?

[Luminous]

Being the way you were raised, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I started just exploring my body at a really young age. I started puberty at 8 so those 'teenage hormones' came way too early. When I was 11 I got an iPod touch and I went on the internet.. a lot. I learned about everything naughty. Whoopsies.

[Sarah_Ward]

Its not weird not to know about doing it, no one actually told me about it but I remember when I was about 11 i was in the shower and i was using one of those nylon pompom's and i was washing and I knew that when I like pressed it against me it felt really good so I used to do it every time I showered bit I didn't know what i was doing till I was like 12.

[emily-candace]

NO you aren't weird, I had been doing it for years and had no idea I was actually masturbating. LOL

[melissa13]

Not weird at all.

[ShelleyCA]

i've done it with friends a couple times..its kinda hot actually!

[melissa13]

Sounds like a good friend that shares her knowledge with you, and is there for you.

[Sarah_Ward]

Hi Danni, i'm an only child too and i know how tough it can be when you have lots of questions about things that can be kinda embarrassing to talk about, I kinda like stumbled into masturbating when i was about nearly 9, i remember it so good too, i was having a shower and i was using one of those like net scrubber thingys and I realised that it felt really nice when i put it between my legs and moved it. Of course I didnt know what i was doing but it just felt really nice. I was just 11 when I realised what I was doing coz we started sex ed at school. I thought I was the only one that ever did it and I felt kinda freaky and I didnt tell anyone about it ever.
This site is really awesom coz I dont feel freaky now that I know other girls do it too. It's hard when your the only child isnt it. Sarah x