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roquetking
July 3rd, 2013, 08:20 PM
Hey..
So, i met this girl in school like 2 months ago. At first, i wanted to be friends with her and we used to talk a lot, and had fun together, she even told me she wanted to go have ice cream with me and that she liked talking to me.. So as time passed by, i began liking her and i decided to ask her to go out with me and she said yes. The day we went out she brought her sister, but her sister stayed behind us and just followed us. I didnt try anything that day because i knew she wasnt ready, i just told her she was really beautiful... after that in school, her attitude towards me totally changed for no reason, she was like avoiding me. i felt she was different, she was never rude tho but when i talked to her, she answered but made the conversations as short as she could and our text conversations were really short too. I finally decided to tell her how i felt about her, because i was liking her more and more. The last day of school, more or less 2 weeks after we went out, i was going to tell her that i liked her and i had her right next to me but i was really nervous and didnt say anything. I texted her the next day and told her i wanted to tell her that i liked her because she was an amazing girl and that she was gorgeous, and that she was making me crazy because i wasn't able to stop thinking about her. Sadly she said she wasnt looking for a relationship right now, so i said maybe another time? And she said: no, sorry im not looking for anything...
I was okay with it and i just said i hope we could still be friends.. That happenned like 2 weeks ago and as i said, i was okay with it at first but now as the days pass and i see her pictures, or read our conversations i just feel sad and im Crazy about it. I think i got in love with her. I cant stop thinking about her and don't know what to do. What would you guys do? What should i do? Help me please and thanks for reading.

HockeyLovesMe
July 3rd, 2013, 09:07 PM
dude for one get over her cuz she clearly does not want to be your boyfriend so stop trying to get something that you cant get.. and not being mean or anything but i dont get why people waste so much time and worry about things like that. i think that you should find another girl.. maybe her sister told her something that made her not like you or who knows but yeah find another girl! :)

AriannaKitten
July 4th, 2013, 01:17 AM
You're being rather obsessive .
If she doesn't like you, she's defiantly not going to like you if you're being that way.
A guy use to like me and he'd send me notes everyday, walk me to class, call me every night and buy me stuff knowing I had no feelings. I kept reminding him .. but he was really persistent and it just ... drew me further away from him :/
I felt bad because he was publicly flirting.. and I called him out on it and that made us hate each other.
If they don't want something, don't force something. Move on (:
Maybe the next girl you meet and feelings for will be head over heels in love with you but obviously not this girl and if she does, she does.

MoonMan
July 4th, 2013, 02:56 AM
She's not interested in you romantically. That's it. You've dealt your hand and put yourself out there, but you can't force an attraction. Don't dwell on things you can't get, there are plenty of other girls out there. If you continue to stress about these things and harbor feelings for her despite her already saying no, it's more than likely going lead to problems down the road and destroy your friendship.