14 Year Old - Help

[KingJamal]

Hey:

I have a lot of questions that I need answers to, if you can help me it'd be great!


1) I get pimples on my stomach, like people get acne on their face but mines all around my stomach and thigh area, they're annoying and they make me VERY self conscious.

2) Is there any way to get rid of man boobs? I'm a little over weight (this comes to play in another question) and I'v lost 25 pounds in the last 5 months, My man boobs really make me mad. Sometimes to the point I can't even explain. I enjoy swimming but I'am afraid to go to the pools because of being judged. It sucks.

3) I know there is a thread for this but I have a penis size question. I'm 14 and my penis is almost an inch flaccid but when errect almost 4. Hearing other guys talk about their normal penis's (5-7) inchs, makes me feel like an outcast. When will it grow? Does being a little overweight play a factor in its growth? I have no idea. When will it grow? How do I make it grow?

4) Masturbation Question- I masturbate about once a day, does that play an effect on my penis development? Am I doing it too much?

5) Why am I so self conscious? I never consider to think about myself being "good", I'am always tearing myself apart, beating myself up, if it's my weight issue, not being the most attractive guy.

6) I'm having girl problems. All the girls I'am into, (if you've heard of the term) friendzone me. I'am "to nice" apparently. That really grinds my gears. I don't know what to do anymore.

7) Not so much a question, but a confession. I'v been really depressed lately. I'am not happy with myself but I manage to put a fake smile on my face and please everyone else... Except for myself. Even my enemy's, I always make everyone happy before myself. It's just the person I am. i'm not happy with my body, my personality, my life. (i'm not suicidal just not happy at the moment :P)

8) Final question- when will I change? when will my body change is what i'am really asking, I'v been trying my best at improving myself, I'v cut back on food and started exercising WAY more!

Thank you a million if you help me answer these questions, Have a great day if I can't replay to them!

[itsthat0n3kid]

1. I used to get the same thing, just make sure you wash the area everytime you shower with lots of soap. just make sure it is clean.
2. chest exercises. I was in your exact position when i was 14 and hated it. just work out. do pushups when you wake up and before you go to bed.
3. you cant "make" it grow. your size is average for your age, so dont worry, itll grow.
4. no. it doesnt really do anything.
5. i am the exact same way. I have horrible self confidence. youre not the only one.
6. also happens to me. it is just going to happen, dont worry. youll find the right girl.
7. it seems we have a lot in common... itll go away. I promise. just keep your head up, and keep yourself busy. find a sport you like.
8. it honestly depends. everyone changes at different times. Just keep eating less (make sure it is healthy and nutritious) and keep exercising! itll work! :)
keep it up bro and message me if you ever need to talk... I went/am going through a lot of the same stuff.

[KingJamal]

1. I used to get the same thing, just make sure you wash the area everytime you shower with lots of soap. just make sure it is clean.
2. chest exercises. I was in your exact position when i was 14 and hated it. just work out. do pushups when you wake up and before you go to bed.
3. you cant "make" it grow. your size is average for your age, so dont worry, itll grow.
4. no. it doesnt really do anything.
5. i am the exact same way. I have horrible self confidence. youre not the only one.
6. also happens to me. it is just going to happen, dont worry. youll find the right girl.
7. it seems we have a lot in common... itll go away. I promise. just keep your head up, and keep yourself busy. find a sport you like.
8. it honestly depends. everyone changes at different times. Just keep eating less (make sure it is healthy and nutritious) and keep exercising! itll work! :)
keep it up bro and message me if you ever need to talk... I went/am going through a lot of the same stuff.

Can't message you, New member :/ do you have skype or where we can text talk? don't have a mic at the moment :/

[itsthat0n3kid]

check my profile under contact info.

[Jasperf]

Hey:

I have a lot of questions that I need answers to, if you can help me it'd be great!


1) I get pimples on my stomach, like people get acne on their face but mines all around my stomach and thigh area, they're annoying and they make me VERY self conscious.

2) Is there any way to get rid of man boobs? I'm a little over weight (this comes to play in another question) and I'v lost 25 pounds in the last 5 months, My man boobs really make me mad. Sometimes to the point I can't even explain. I enjoy swimming but I'am afraid to go to the pools because of being judged. It sucks.

3) I know there is a thread for this but I have a penis size question. I'm 14 and my penis is almost an inch flaccid but when errect almost 4. Hearing other guys talk about their normal penis's (5-7) inchs, makes me feel like an outcast. When will it grow? Does being a little overweight play a factor in its growth? I have no idea. When will it grow? How do I make it grow?

4) Masturbation Question- I masturbate about once a day, does that play an effect on my penis development? Am I doing it too much?

5) Why am I so self conscious? I never consider to think about myself being "good", I'am always tearing myself apart, beating myself up, if it's my weight issue, not being the most attractive guy.

6) I'm having girl problems. All the girls I'am into, (if you've heard of the term) friendzone me. I'am "to nice" apparently. That really grinds my gears. I don't know what to do anymore.

7) Not so much a question, but a confession. I'v been really depressed lately. I'am not happy with myself but I manage to put a fake smile on my face and please everyone else... Except for myself. Even my enemy's, I always make everyone happy before myself. It's just the person I am. i'm not happy with my body, my personality, my life. (i'm not suicidal just not happy at the moment :P)

8) Final question- when will I change? when will my body change is what i'am really asking, I'v been trying my best at improving myself, I'v cut back on food and started exercising WAY more!

Thank you a million if you help me answer these questions, Have a great day if I can't replay to them!

Hey man it's gonna be hard to get through all of this in a post, but if you would also like me to carry on answering your questions just flick me a vm (:

Okay well your big problem(the one that you can actually change right now) seems to be your weight. Ok well immediately I'm gonna say it won't be easy not immediate. Congrats on loosing the weight you have already.
Okay well it really come down to what your consuming! The pimples on your stomach will be effected by this as well! So diet and cardio, cardio is the big thing for loosing weight, things like sit ups do nothing, and I can explain this if you need me to.
Sorry about the random order here, just going as I remember things. Well penis size, masterbation question. No masterbation is not effecting your penis growth at all. You are still young, 4 inches is not exactly bad, my best friends penis did not grow til he was late 15, imagine how embarrassing it was for him, we saw him naked everyday! Everyone develops in different orders, for example his voice was cracking way before any of ours. Yes weight could effect the size of your penis, but not permanently, just for as long as you have the weight on.

Ok with the girl problems, once your friend zoned... No going back :/ there is a saying 'gotta be mean to keep them keen' :p which if your think about it works, cause all of the hottest chicks are with dickheads haha, and you always want what you can't have, so playing hard to get may really work!


Remember, message me for anything eles, I'm good at explaining fitness things and loosing weight (:

[Steven1]

1) I get pimples on my stomach, like people get acne on their face but mines all around my stomach and thigh area, they're annoying and they make me VERY self conscious.

If you're describing it in the way I think you are then its possible that they're just hair follicles. If you really don't like them then it might be worth a trip to the doctors, and they could prescribe or recommend something that will help.

2) Is there any way to get rid of man boobs? I'm a little over weight (this comes to play in another question) and I'v lost 25 pounds in the last 5 months, My man boobs really make me mad. Sometimes to the point I can't even explain. I enjoy swimming but I'am afraid to go to the pools because of being judged. It sucks.

Apart from loose weight, I don't think so. I'm also slightly overweight, but am currently losing weight. I've found the easiest way to do this is to not eat less, but eat healthier, and do regular exercise, my favourite way to do this is to go for a bike ride.

3) I know there is a thread for this but I have a penis size question. I'm 14 and my penis is almost an inch flaccid but when errect almost 4. Hearing other guys talk about their normal penis's (5-7) inchs, makes me feel like an outcast. When will it grow? Does being a little overweight play a factor in its growth? I have no idea. When will it grow? How do I make it grow?

The average adult is 5-6", and you still have 6 or 7 years to grow as yet, so I wouldn't worry about. There's no need to feel like an outcast, some people are smaller, some are larger, it's as simple as that. Sure, there'll be people bigger than you, but you by no means will be the smallest.

4) Masturbation Question- I masturbate about once a day, does that play an effect on my penis development? Am I doing it too much?

No to both. It won't affect the development of your penis in any way. In extreme cases, it could end up bending your penis slightly to the direction of the hand you used, as it will have more force on that side. That is only in extreme cases though, and is unlikely, unless you significantly yank your penis to the side when masturbating.

Once a day is fine. I think as well that thats the average. Some people don't do it at all, some once a week, some once a day, and some even more than 5 times a day. Once a day is by no means too much. You can't do any damage by masturbating, you just have to make sure it doesn't get in the way of your social life or studying etc.

5) Why am I so self conscious? I never consider to think about myself being "good", I'am always tearing myself apart, beating myself up, if it's my weight issue, not being the most attractive guy.

Everyone is self-conscious about something. Whether it be looks, weight, penis size, it can be anything at all. It's natural, so I wouldn't worry about it. You grow to accept it eventually. Like me for example, I hated having photos taken of me, but now I'm not so bothered, because I can't see the point in worrying over something so futile. It's a natural part of growing up though, so don't be worried about it. If you ask all your friends or anyone in your class what they're self-conscious I would bet that most of them would have at least one, if not more, things that they worry about.

6) I'm having girl problems. All the girls I'am into, (if you've heard of the term) friendzone me. I'am "to nice" apparently. That really grinds my gears. I don't know what to do anymore.

Don't worry about it, you'll find someone eventually. I don't think there's much more that I can say on that topic.

7) Not so much a question, but a confession. I'v been really depressed lately. I'am not happy with myself but I manage to put a fake smile on my face and please everyone else... Except for myself. Even my enemy's, I always make everyone happy before myself. It's just the person I am. i'm not happy with my body, my personality, my life. (i'm not suicidal just not happy at the moment )

It's normal for pubertal teenagers to feel like this. If you start feeling worse then a trip to the doctors might be worth the trip, as he/she could help. However, if you start to feel suicidal go to the doctors IMMEDIATELY.

8) Final question- when will I change? when will my body change is what i'am really asking, I'v been trying my best at improving myself, I'v cut back on food and started exercising WAY more!

Its impossible to tell. You could change next week or later next year. Cutting back on food isn't the best way to diet, instead you should just eat healthier.

Hope I helped :) If there's nothing else you want to know then ill be happy to help, either on this thread or through PM.

[KingJamal]

Hey man it's gonna be hard to get through all of this in a post, but if you would also like me to carry on answering your questions just flick me a vm (:

Okay well your big problem(the one that you can actually change right now) seems to be your weight. Ok well immediately I'm gonna say it won't be easy not immediate. Congrats on loosing the weight you have already.
Okay well it really come down to what your consuming! The pimples on your stomach will be effected by this as well! So diet and cardio, cardio is the big thing for loosing weight, things like sit ups do nothing, and I can explain this if you need me to.
Sorry about the random order here, just going as I remember things. Well penis size, masterbation question. No masterbation is not effecting your penis growth at all. You are still young, 4 inches is not exactly bad, my best friends penis did not grow til he was late 15, imagine how embarrassing it was for him, we saw him naked everyday! Everyone develops in different orders, for example his voice was cracking way before any of ours. Yes weight could effect the size of your penis, but not permanently, just for as long as you have the weight on.

Ok with the girl problems, once your friend zoned... No going back :/ there is a saying 'gotta be mean to keep them keen' :p which if your think about it works, cause all of the hottest chicks are with dickheads haha, and you always want what you can't have, so playing hard to get may really work!


Remember, message me for anything eles, I'm good at explaining fitness things and loosing weight (:

You're completly right :p if you have skype i can add you, im going away for 3 weeks, when i get back i plan to start the p90x program, id be very grateful if you can help me out :)

[KingJamal]

1) I get pimples on my stomach, like people get acne on their face but mines all around my stomach and thigh area, they're annoying and they make me VERY self conscious.

If you're describing it in the way I think you are then its possible that they're just hair follicles. If you really don't like them then it might be worth a trip to the doctors, and they could prescribe or recommend something that will help.

2) Is there any way to get rid of man boobs? I'm a little over weight (this comes to play in another question) and I'v lost 25 pounds in the last 5 months, My man boobs really make me mad. Sometimes to the point I can't even explain. I enjoy swimming but I'am afraid to go to the pools because of being judged. It sucks.

Apart from loose weight, I don't think so. I'm also slightly overweight, but am currently losing weight. I've found the easiest way to do this is to not eat less, but eat healthier, and do regular exercise, my favourite way to do this is to go for a bike ride.

3) I know there is a thread for this but I have a penis size question. I'm 14 and my penis is almost an inch flaccid but when errect almost 4. Hearing other guys talk about their normal penis's (5-7) inchs, makes me feel like an outcast. When will it grow? Does being a little overweight play a factor in its growth? I have no idea. When will it grow? How do I make it grow?

The average adult is 5-6", and you still have 6 or 7 years to grow as yet, so I wouldn't worry about. There's no need to feel like an outcast, some people are smaller, some are larger, it's as simple as that. Sure, there'll be people bigger than you, but you by no means will be the smallest.

4) Masturbation Question- I masturbate about once a day, does that play an effect on my penis development? Am I doing it too much?

No to both. It won't affect the development of your penis in any way. In extreme cases, it could end up bending your penis slightly to the direction of the hand you used, as it will have more force on that side. That is only in extreme cases though, and is unlikely, unless you significantly yank your penis to the side when masturbating.

Once a day is fine. I think as well that thats the average. Some people don't do it at all, some once a week, some once a day, and some even more than 5 times a day. Once a day is by no means too much. You can't do any damage by masturbating, you just have to make sure it doesn't get in the way of your social life or studying etc.

5) Why am I so self conscious? I never consider to think about myself being "good", I'am always tearing myself apart, beating myself up, if it's my weight issue, not being the most attractive guy.

Everyone is self-conscious about something. Whether it be looks, weight, penis size, it can be anything at all. It's natural, so I wouldn't worry about it. You grow to accept it eventually. Like me for example, I hated having photos taken of me, but now I'm not so bothered, because I can't see the point in worrying over something so futile. It's a natural part of growing up though, so don't be worried about it. If you ask all your friends or anyone in your class what they're self-conscious I would bet that most of them would have at least one, if not more, things that they worry about.

6) I'm having girl problems. All the girls I'am into, (if you've heard of the term) friendzone me. I'am "to nice" apparently. That really grinds my gears. I don't know what to do anymore.

Don't worry about it, you'll find someone eventually. I don't think there's much more that I can say on that topic.

7) Not so much a question, but a confession. I'v been really depressed lately. I'am not happy with myself but I manage to put a fake smile on my face and please everyone else... Except for myself. Even my enemy's, I always make everyone happy before myself. It's just the person I am. i'm not happy with my body, my personality, my life. (i'm not suicidal just not happy at the moment )

It's normal for pubertal teenagers to feel like this. If you start feeling worse then a trip to the doctors might be worth the trip, as he/she could help. However, if you start to feel suicidal go to the doctors IMMEDIATELY.

8) Final question- when will I change? when will my body change is what i'am really asking, I'v been trying my best at improving myself, I'v cut back on food and started exercising WAY more!

Its impossible to tell. You could change next week or later next year. Cutting back on food isn't the best way to diet, instead you should just eat healthier.

Hope I helped :) If there's nothing else you want to know then ill be happy to help, either on this thread or through PM.
Thanks a million! Your answers are perfect, thankyou for making everything clear!

[Steven1]

Thanks a million! Your answers are perfect, thankyou for making everything clear!

No problem!

[pjones]

I'll just respond to these

2) Is there any way to get rid of man boobs? I'm a little over weight (this comes to play in another question) and I'v lost 25 pounds in the last 5 months, My man boobs really make me mad. Sometimes to the point I can't even explain. I enjoy swimming but I'am afraid to go to the pools because of being judged. It sucks.

me and my friends ain't models and we go to the beach all the time. i don't think anyone really cares. try pretending nobody is there and then they can't judge you.

5) Why am I so self conscious? I never consider to think about myself being "good", I'am always tearing myself apart, beating myself up, if it's my weight issue, not being the most attractive guy.

you don't need to be the most attractive guy, just be yourself. we get pressure to be people we aren't which isn't fair.

[Jasperf]

You're completly right :p if you have skype i can add you, im going away for 3 weeks, when i get back i plan to start the p90x program, id be very grateful if you can help me out :)

that would be awsome, love helping :)