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Cthulhu
July 2nd, 2013, 03:34 PM
So I have been wondering for quite some time Wether im bisexual or bi-curious. Both gay porn and straight porn turns me on almost equally, but when im walking on the street or on the beach I am much more easily attracted to women Than to men. To the level of me almost not thinking about them at all, almost xD.But still at school i find myself CONSTANTLY fantasizing about one of my male friends, which brings me on to another topic. I really want to experiment with someone (preferably male), hopefully with that friend i just mentioned. But how am i supposed to bring this up? How should i Ask him? Oh and i just thought i should mention that i have never been emotionally attracted to anyone, but this might be the start of something.

After all, I am just an unexperienced 13yr old boy. Sorry for bad english, im writing this on an ipad with Norwegian autocorrect.

Stronger
July 2nd, 2013, 04:04 PM
Well you are only 13, just starting puberty, so I would say for now that you are probably bi-curious, but don't be quick to declare yourself something, just be open and decide later on when your older. As for experimenting, that could be a touchy thing to ask your friend(s), they could agree but then again could be offended, I guess it could depend on your level of friendship.

chrisg201140
July 3rd, 2013, 07:42 PM
explore yourself, see what feels good for you, be safe though. anal masturbation is one way of tapping in to your gay side.

HockeyLovesMe
July 3rd, 2013, 09:12 PM
So I have been wondering for quite some time Wether im bisexual or bi-curious. Both gay porn and straight porn turns me on almost equally, but when im walking on the street or on the beach I am much more easily attracted to women Than to men. To the level of me almost not thinking about them at all, almost xD.But still at school i find myself CONSTANTLY fantasizing about one of my male friends, which brings me on to another topic. I really want to experiment with someone (preferably male), hopefully with that friend i just mentioned. But how am i supposed to bring this up? How should i Ask him? Oh and i just thought i should mention that i have never been emotionally attracted to anyone, but this might be the start of something.

After all, I am just an unexperienced 13yr old boy. Sorry for bad english, im writing this on an ipad with Norwegian autocorrect.

your english is great! and i would say bicurious but dont worry about a label just be yourself and have fun :)

dubstep13
July 5th, 2013, 05:45 PM
You're more than likely bi-curious. I was like this when I was 13 and I changed to liking men more than women. Just explore your feelings. Maybe invite your friend around for a sleepover and try then. Good luck dude!

Trae329
July 5th, 2013, 08:50 PM
You're more than likely bi-curious. I was like this when I was 13 and I changed to liking men more than women. Just explore your feelings. Maybe invite your friend around for a sleepover and try then. Good luck dude!

I completely agree with you. I believe that you'll be fine (now talking to OP), just try to get to hang out with him one night and if nobody is around, pull something like exposing yourself to him or act flirty. Who knows? He might like it a lot.

Good luck!

Cthulhu
July 6th, 2013, 02:09 PM
I appreciate all of the responses, thank you :D we'll see how it goes

jayjay's toocool
July 6th, 2013, 06:08 PM
But how am i supposed to bring this up? Am I gay or just extremely bi-curious? Start with something small then work your way up to opening your door with experimentation and idk you must decide for yourself