I knew this was a bad idea ...

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I knew that this was going to happen. I denied it for so long, tried to push away all the feelings that I had, but they just came back, worse then ever.

If you don't know what I'm talking about from my previous thread, I'll explain this as simply as possible. Me ane my best friend had been talking less and less as time went on. Eventually I started to have a crush on him, which pretty much destroyed the friendship we had.

About a week ago we started talking again, and I started to warm up to him again. And then my feelings came crashing back.

I wish I never tried to talk to him again. I wouldn't have to deal with my feelings if I didn't. I feel trapped.

Any advice?

[laxer720_battle]

I've been there before. The best thing you can do is to keep reminding your self that nothing will happen between you guys. I know that it's hard to do, but in the end it is for the best. You can stay friends, but just keep that reminder in your head, then one day, you'll realize that your feelings aren't as strong, & they'll get a little less strong each day. They might not ever fully go away depending on how strong your feelings are. But they'll get a little easier to deal with.
Hope this helped

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I've been there before. The best thing you can do is to keep reminding your self that nothing will happen between you guys. I know that it's hard to do, but in the end it is for the best. You can stay friends, but just keep that reminder in your head, then one day, you'll realize that your feelings aren't as strong, & they'll get a little less strong each day. They might not ever fully go away depending on how strong your feelings are. But they'll get a little easier to deal with.
Hope this helped

I pretty much told us that we can't really be friends. It won't work out the way either of us want it to.

[FrostWraith]

Hmm...I'd recommend just staying away from him; eventually you'll forget about him. Otherwise, what's the point of chasing a hopeless relationship?

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Hmm...I'd recommend just staying away from him; eventually you'll forget about him. Otherwise, what's the point of chasing a hopeless relationship?

I don't really want to do that. I don't know what I want at this point. Everything is just going wrong.

[laxer720_battle]

just take a step back from all this & just think about it. Like think about what YOU want, about what would make YOU happy. Then just talk to him, just sit down and talk him about...well everything

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just take a step back from all this & just think about it. Like think about what YOU want, about what would make YOU happy. Then just talk to him, just sit down and talk him about...well everything

What I really want is unrealistic and will never happen. So, there's that.

And I'm not going to see him in person until September when school starts.

[laxer720_battle]

awww, well just keep your head up, something better is bound to come along.
& ahhhh

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awww, well just keep your head up, something better is bound to come along.
& ahhhh

I sent him a final message today saying that I was "glad" to know that really didn't give a damn about me and that I was stupid for trying to forgive him.

I'm trying to get over it, but as soon as I stop being angry I start to like him even more then before. It's like a bad cycle.

[Charlie48]

Friends come and go in life, he'll be replaced.

[laxer720_battle]

I've been in that place before, it may take awhile, but eventually your feeling will go away.

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I've been in that place before, it may take awhile, but eventually your feeling will go away.

Hopefully. But then I might want to be friends, which will obviously be an issue.

[laxer720_battle]

yea, but if you do wanna be friends eventually, you should make it clear that you like him as a friend and just that.

[Morgoth42]

It happens. I have crushes on most of my friends. Including my best ones. Both male and female. Its tough but you have to either go all in for it or stay out completly.

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This is kind of a toughy one...what you should do is tell him how you really feel. I did this with my best friend, but he was 100% straight. So what I did, depending on his reaction, I took the short way out of things and I came up with an excuse to tell him that I "lied"... So, depends on how long you guys have known each other. If it's a couple of years, like 2, see what he says! You never know until you try! But if you've known each other for many years, and you're like bros to each other, try to keep it on the down low. BUT!! Definitely start talking with him again! Catch up with him. See how he's doing. Text him. Whatever you gotta do to keep in touch with him. You don't want to lose him right? So just talk to him on a weekly basis. Maybe every other 2-3 days. I hope this helps! :D

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I sent him a final message today saying that I was "glad" to know that really didn't give a damn about me and that I was stupid for trying to forgive him.

I'm trying to get over it, but as soon as I stop being angry I start to like him even more then before. It's like a bad cycle.

Woah woah woah!! Don't make things worse!!! (Sorry if that came on too strong) Try to work things out. Like I said in my last post, it just depends how long you've known each other. Couple years, eh, do what you want...Pretty few years, try to fix the situation. PLUS, you'll be seeing him in September in school. On an everyday basis (except weekends of course). Don't make it to where it'll be awkward passing each other in the hall. If you end it all right there, I promise you, it will be awkward the few weeks beginning school. The only way it will be un awkward is if you erase him from your life and act like as if he's a ghost to you. But I think you said you didn't wanna do that so that's a no. So try to make things better and see how that goes.:yes: