My girlfriend

[imy234]

Well my girlfriend started self harming her self and she keeps saying she is depressed but she won't tell my why, can someone tell me how I can help her?

[candabear17]

I know that this will probably sound weird, but kiss her cuts. It's a way of showing that you care and that she can trust you. Tell her that you understand if she doesn't want to tell you, but let her know that you're worried and that you're there if she needs someone to talk to. How long have you been dating for?

[imy234]

About 6 months

But wen I ask what's wrong she just gets angry



Please don't double post, use the edit button instead. ~Bacon.

[Croconaw]

She probably doesn't want you to worry about her. I agree with Candis, by the way. Kiss her cuts.

[sweetpotato]

That's actually a decent thing to do. Kissing the cuts is not really a mandatory thing but it shows you're really going the extra mile. If you truly care for her and want to help, tell her that. Make sure she knows you love her and won't ever let her down.

[ovoxo23]

I know that this will probably sound weird, but kiss her cuts. It's a way of showing that you care and that she can trust you. Tell her that you understand if she doesn't want to tell you, but let her know that you're worried and that you're there if she needs someone to talk to. How long have you been dating for?

That is the most genius (and sweet) thing that I have heard.

[1_21Guns]

She might get angry because she's frustrated by it, her mood could be dropping for no real reason and that's why she can't tell you, of course there will be a serious underlying cause, but she needs to know it's okay to open up to you, I know it might feel like well you're her boyfriend she should feel like she can but it's not that simple, like others said kiss her cuts, show her you don't and won't think she's a 'freak' for what she's going through right now, just be there for her

[laurakoller0815]

sometimes its good to step back and let her talk to gf's best friend. its up to her when she share her thoughts with you. i know its very frustrating to wait. be patient and you'll get those things resolved.

[EternalSadness]

She probably isn't telling you because she doesn't want to hurt you or for you to think she's crazy and lose you. At least that's the case in my own personal experience. Or if you're depressed she doesn't want to make you worse. Anyway try to show you can understand and won't be upset if she tells you, or if you want to know what's upsetting her by what she doesn't and does do. Like if she doesn't want to go to school, the problem is there. But knowing you're there and you care will make her better whether she tells you or not.