Not out enough?

[CyrustheGreat]

Hey guy, question: I have many female friends that i would like to have relationships with, but i know i cant ask my parents/family because they'll want to meet her and it will be wierd, so i normally dont ask them out. Is this a relationship blocker? (P.S. i cant drive, only 15)

[handle with care]

it may be weird but its worth it if you really care for the person but make sure the care about you dont choose a girl who will hurt you

[CyrustheGreat]

Good point, but i also forgot to mention that they're busy most of the time and cant take me anyway...

[Overture Libra]

On the younger end of teenage years dating can always be a bummer. There really is no way to solve your predicament right now, but it'll all be fine as time goes on (getting a job for money and getting a car eventually, etc).

One piece of advice I can share though, is that there's actually a pretty good consolation to your relationship "block." Sure, it would be awkward to have parents drive you places and maybe you don't have privacy all the time for your convenience, but at the same time that limits the crowd for you. Sure, first impressions are always important, but at the same time having those small limitations only means that you have a much greater chance of ending up with a better girl that actually cares about you and is willing to live with those limitations to be with you.

In short, it's pretty common to have limiting factors like that in your dating life. Not everyone has a lot of money with their own car, a license at the age of 15, a job for money, and (probably for you) their own place to crash for privacy. It just shows that you'll pick out the ones that care the most and understand from the ones that are shallower people even quicker. Because if you can't land a certain girl because of those common issues, then she was never good to be with in the first place.

Oh, and as for your parents wanting to meet and all that? That's also a factor that will only help you sift through the good ones from the ones that aren't worth it. A girl that judges you on things outside of your control is someones that doesn't care enough about you.