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ForeverTwelve
July 1st, 2013, 11:03 PM
Guys and girls, describe your perfect partner in detail. Describe personality traits, their interests, looks, anything and everything that you seek in your companion.
My perfect girl is someone I can talk to about anything. She'd be hyper, and want to get up and do stuff. I like a girl who's girly, as long as she isn't prissy. I'd even date a tomboy, if she would accept that I'm feminine. I'd like a girl that likes video games, comedy movies, swimming, and long walks in the park or on a beach. I need a girl that wants to cuddle and show affection, and receive it. I'm overly affectionate and have been told I smother girls in affection. I need a girl that'll smother me.
As for looks, I prefer a slim girl, but a little chunky is good too. I prefer girls with long hair, at least shoulder length, I don't care about the color. I like blondes, brunettes, redheads and black haired girls, just the same. I would love her to have smooth, soft, pale or fair skin, but I'll accept any girl, as long as she don't live in a tanning bed, eww. Eye color is no issue, but I notice blue or green eyes more often. I like small boobs, but as long as they're natural, and not sagging to the floor, I don't mind. Plastic boobs are gross.
I'd love for a girl to carry herself well. Stand up straight, well groomed. I like girls who are conservative with their appearance, as they respect themselves, and would probably be nicer to date. But I also like a girl who shows a little skin, because that shows confidence and turns me on. If she had a southern accent or an Australian accent, that would be a major turn on.
And I certainly need a Christian girl.
CyrustheGreat
July 2nd, 2013, 02:32 AM
Well, my soul mate would be a girl who is more intellegent than me, but doesn't run it in my face. She has to be open about her emotions, but not going to tell me the dream she had last night. She would be spiritual, and sensual, and sexual, and be committed to our relationship.
As for looks, it doesn't atter that much but being a ginger (red hair, freckles) is great. (I'm also a ginger) She needs medium size boobs, and have a petite frame, with a nice butt i can playfully smack. :D
Don't care about religion, just not 'raise the dead' or 'satan will rule!' or spmething like that.
Giannaras
July 2nd, 2013, 04:29 AM
My perfect girl is someone who when she sees me she smiles and makes me (really)happy someone who loves action video games on pc a girl that wheres really short jeans on summer and is too hot someone who will be faithful and willing to drop her friends if she had to for me(I would do the same) someone who would say I love you and truly meaning it.
Croconaw
July 2nd, 2013, 04:51 AM
My soul mate is my current boyfriend. :D
Overture Libra
July 2nd, 2013, 05:03 AM
For me, I want a girl that I can relate to, that has to be the most important thing to me. First and foremost, she needs to have a somewhat extended capacity to understand me beyond the average person. She needs to be open-minded and very accepting and tolerant of things. I'm not too specific on personality, because I don't have any major likes or dislikes, as long as she's respectful, reasonable (not overly attached), and sensitive. Sensitivity for me is a big turn on. OH, and she just has to be smart and mature. I can't stand girls that are illiterate, post cheesy relationship stuff on Facebook, and hold narrow views of things. She needs to have her priorities straight and know what she wants in life.
Secondly, she needs to have a cute smile. I have no preferences in hair color and length, nor do I have any major preference in skin tone/color, except for African Americans. I mean no offense, but there are far less African American girls that I like as much as other girls. Eye color is also no biggie. I'd prefer a smaller, shorter girl, because that means that they're easier to show affection towards and give, and that makes them a better cuddle buddy(and face it, that's just plain cute). Although at the same time, I also prefer girls around my same height, as it's a visual representation of the type of relationship I want, where the girl is an equal and I'm not the prominent leader. I'm less masculine of a guy and don't want to take the definite lead. The girl should be independent and have equal say in everything. I don't have any major preference on body size, besides that I just don't get attracted to overweight girls as much. There have been some that have above-average weight that were some of the most attractive I've ever seen, but those are far and in between for me.
Boob size isn't a major one for me, it depends on the person. In my mind, it's all based on proportionality. A girl that's the same height as me with a generally thinned out shape that has bigger boobs is very attractive, but at the same time if it's a small girl that still has a slim build, bigger boobs would look off. At the same time, a shorter girl with a slim build that has smaller boobs is just as attractive. Of course, a girl my same size with below average size can also be very attractive for me.
As for sexuality, that's not a huge biggie for me, but just added information to pile on-top. It can never subtract, but just add on to what she already has in terms of personality and looks. Me being one that greatly values quirks, being unique, and individuality, for some reason bi girls are a turn on for me (although straight girls are no less important). I'm about average when it comes to my hormone level, so a girl that's less sexually-oriented is perfectly okay by me; but at the same time, a girl with higher hormone levels and is more demanding in that sense is a turn on for me, most likely because I'm indecisive and my hormones are easily influenced. On the other end of the spectrum, girls that are way less hormone-oriented are also a big turn on, because it shows the purity of her love and how much she cares about things beyond just sex, as personally I will always hold sex in a somewhat shallow standing, unless it comes way later in a relationship when emotional maturity is reached.
Speaking of being one that values quirkiness and someone that's unique....It's a huge turn on for the girl to be more of a "hipster" or someone that's not in style. Her being one that dislikes following in the crowd solidifies her independence and strong nature to be herself, rather than follow trends and give in to social norms and follow what others want in order to seek approval. No offense to any religion, but I usually find girls that aren't Christian more attractive in personality because then they're a part of the minority, which yet again, goes back to how I value individuality. I want a girl that can think for herself and doesn't follow preset rules just because they're there (in terms of belonging to a religion just because of her ignorance of other beliefs out there, going with current trends, etc.)
So yerp, that just about describes my perfect girl and what I want in one. There is no definition of "perfect" for me, since my preferences on many things are varied.
UKRaven32
July 2nd, 2013, 01:52 PM
For me, I'd have to say this would be my perfect partner:
Someone I could tell everything, and I mean everything. Things I wouldnt tell my parents or any of my closest friends, because theres alot of things I need to get off my chest and I don't feel I could go to my parents or my best friends. She would be playful, but would allow us to calm down and have quiet time. She would be jokey, but serious when she needed to be.
As for looks and appearance, she would have light brown hair, shoulder to breast length, and bright blue eyes that I could just stare into forever. She would be slim but curvy, smallish - medium size boobs and a big bum :D
For dress sense, she would dress quite casually but nice, and would dress smartly when she wanted to go out to places. She would show some skin on her legs and arms to show she's confident.
She wouldnt mind me being around her, hugging her and touching her most of the time, so she would have to be quite clingy to me too. But, she would know when it is time to stop if I got a bit irritated by it. She would be comfortable with me being with her and her parents and her parents being comfortable with me being around her.
Most of all, I just want someone I could love, and be with for a very long time.
Harley Quinn
July 2nd, 2013, 02:29 PM
I wouldn't say there's a perfect girl out there for me but, I'll see what I can do. Especially on detail. I like feminine girls, more so than butch ones but tomboys, I think I'd go for. I don't like blondes, never have and I never really knew why. I mean, there are some exceptions but most of the time blondes are not for me. I have a huge thing for redheads. Brunettes are cute too, but redheads are like my ideal dream/whatever it's called girl.
Eye colour doesn't bother me but because I'm blue eyed myself, I like green more on the other person, green or brown but blue would annoy me. I don't even know why but all the girls I have liked/dated have not had blue eyes. I don't like skinny girls, never have done. Skinny girls annoy me, but obviously I'd like someone that does take pride in themselves. They have to like food as much as I do.
I like someone who knows what they're about, how to defend themselves, how to laugh and not take life 100% seriously. I like girls that are practically family around their friends, I don't mean that they are family orientated, I mean that they have complete trust and love in their friends. I like a person that doesn't care how they look when they wake up, I like people that have that cute vulnerable side to them. I like cuddles so a girl that knows how to show affection is always nice.
I'm a boob sort of girl rather than a butt one, so a good pair of boobs is good. I'm not really a fan of big boobs so small to medium size, really. I like a girl that isn't ridiculously girly and doesn't mind getting her hands dirty, like they know how to do practical stuff not how to put make-up on. I don't really have a preference for race or anything like that. Give me a girl with a cute accent, and oh hot damn my body is ready. It is however, not a must just what I would picture as 'perfect'. I like a girl who is not afraid to wake up in the morning and look like a hot mess, I think girls are attractive with bed hair and all that. I don't like girls that think they're too beautiful for life, down to earth girls are my cup of tea.
I'm short so a girl that is taller than me is always good, I'm literally like 5ft2 at a maximum so anyone can be taller than me. If I can't 'have' taller than a girl the same height as me is good too, hug height is good, I don't want to hug their armpit though so not that tall. I like to be the more protective person so a girl that would like to be looked after rather than being the one to protect is good too. Religion wise, I don't care, you believe in what you believe and all that but it doesn't really bother me.
My thinking capacity is now over so, I cannot describe much more.
foxtrot.12
July 2nd, 2013, 02:30 PM
someone i can say anything to and she still loves me she's kinda of skinny has blue eyes and dark hair and she wants to travel the world with me to choose our adopted children and then just stay at home in our mansion and clean, talk, cook, and take care of the kids while i make money for her to go shopping
teen.jpg
July 2nd, 2013, 06:44 PM
My perfect partner is;
> Someone who loves me for everything I am.
> Someone who I can trust.
> Someone who is always there, whether you want them or not.
> Someone who isn't afraid to tell you the truth.
> Someone who knows how to make you happy.
> Someone funny, smart, charming, laid-back, responsible, confident, determined, affectionate, and reliable.
As far as appearances go;
> Taller then me
> Not skinnier then me, but not fat either.
> Not hairy, but not bald either.
> Hair short-medium length.
> Nice body type
But I don't know if I'll ever find anyone like that :( (And I realized I basically started describing my best friend, who for all I know is straight.)
Mob Boss
July 5th, 2013, 12:40 AM
If perfection existed:
| Grumpy - I'm always attracted to guys that are a bit grumpy. :P Not mean, just grumpy.
| Funny - I can't get along with people that don't have a sense of humor, so this is one of the biggest.
| Kind - Not Mother Teresa kind, just thoughtful and selfless.
| Intelligent - Never like guys that are dumb as rocks. If you don't know when Columbus sailed the ocean blue (1492), then I don't want to be with you.
| Dark - As I'm dark with a morbid sense of humor and such, I'd like a guy who was. Otherwise when I'm laughing at someone getting decapitated in a movie and he isn't, I'll feel awkward like I'm a serial killer.
| Tall - Not a giant, just at least as tall as me (5'11) . I would never date a guy shorter.
| Brunette - I have a thang for dem brunette guys. Black or brown hair, please. :3
| Skinny - I like skinny/lanky guys. XD I don't care for muscles, though they are pleasing to the eye. Just not my type.
| Music - He has to have a decent taste in music. If he listens to Bieber, Gaga, One Direction, I will be out of there so fast.
He also has to be confident enough in himself to not follow trends. At least be original. Very loveable and someone that makes time fly by. :3 That is all.
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