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Cece14
July 1st, 2013, 03:03 PM
Okay, so..... My world is Hell right now, okay......
My friend is did it and might be pregnat, shes 15
Me and one of my friends are fighting
Its summer
I have no one to talk too
Single
Dont have love
Alcoholic dad
Tabbaco chewing dad and brother
Annoying mom.

I need friends

SkootuGurl
July 1st, 2013, 07:57 PM
Are you into any sports? You could try signing up for a team and make friends that way. Also, try contacting your school (even if it is during holidays) so see if they're running any social projects over the break.

MoonMan
July 1st, 2013, 08:24 PM
Summers can suck sometimes, I personally just jack off and smoke weed all day to fight the boredom and loneliness. Granted, I'm a massive loser so you should go and look for some other options. Maybe try and join a sport or another club of some sort so you could meet and be around new people.

Mob Boss
July 1st, 2013, 09:08 PM
While the world can seem miserable at times, there's so many good things that happen that we seem to overlook because our minds are clouded with sadness, or anger, or whatever it might be.


*Your friend's pregnancy is not your problem. Yes, I understand, it's your friend, but you shouldn't let it bring you down. Be there for her as much as you can, but don't let it stop yourself from being a teenager. As much as it sucks, being pregnant is the result of her actions. There are pregnant teens, unfortunately, everywhere. It happens.
*Friends fight. This isn't the end of the world. When I was your age, the fights I had with my friends were very short-lived. Try to swallow your pride and resolve things with your friend if it's causing you so much distress.
*Summer is amazing. Sorry, that isn't a negative thing, in my opinion.
*There are plenty of people on this site, myself included, that would gladly lend caring ears and talk. Or try to attend events in your community to meet new people. Take up a sport or hobby. Being on a sports team would surround you with people your age.
*You're 14, you'll find love in due time. This shouldn't be something to hinder you from enjoying your summer. You'll hit a point in life where you meet someone you want to be with; don't spend your summer at 14 looking for someone or sad because you don't have someone.
*As this is a problem close to my heart, I really feel for you about this. Sadly there isn't much you can do. He's a grown man and will and does make his own choices. Try letting him know how it's affecting you.
*Again, voice your feelings. Express your concerns for their health.
*Parents are annoying. It typically means they're doing their job as a parent to protect you and keep your best intentions at heart.



None of this is that bad. When you're young, we seem to make problems seem 10x worse than they are. See, when you get older you'll wish you would have enjoyed summers when you were 14 and carefree. I certainly wish I was.