Guys Mind

[Cece14]

I have met and dated a fair amount of guys in my 14 years of living, but, none of them were right..... I get so confused with guys, like, what do they want from a girl?? All guys I know want sex, but, ummmm, hell no! Im not the girl that just gives that out....... So how do you guys think? What do you want from a girl to last in a relationship??

[Abyssal Echo]

Prob the same thing I want in a guy to be sweet kind loving and treat me right. sex is just an added bonus.

[Overture Libra]

Well, I have to say that I'm grateful that guys are so upfront with wanting sex. I've had so many friends that have been in bad relationships with a guy that just wanted their body all along.

Anyways, as for what I want in a girl? I'll keep it simple:

1. A great personality and understanding nature, as a way to set foundation for trust.
2. A good smile. I can't have any sort of attraction without one that stands out to me.

Everything else like overall body shape, and sex preferences is just an added "bonus" I guess. To me that's not what matters, and all those guys that it didn't work out with that wanted sex as something as important as the two things up there ^^ just don't have their priorities straight.

In general, if you want to know what guys are thinking...They're most likely either the type that just want in your pants, or the type that think just like you do. Guys really aren't that different in thinking, even though there will always be those that just want sex.

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We can't say what a guy wants in a girl. That's a stereotype because not all guys are the same.

[ForeverTwelve]

I'm not like every other guy. I'm kind of feminine and a softie.

What I want in a girl is an exclusive best friend. A companion. Someone I can spend my day with, and chat and hang out, and do fun things. I want someone who hates drama, and is easy to talk to, and understanding. I also love cuddling and affection.

I'll admit, sex does cross my mind sometimes, but I believe we should wait, and I won't pressure a girl into it. If she pressured me, I'd probably not be able to bring myself to have sex with her. But then again, I haven't really been in that situation.

[Eric57]

Not every guy is the same. Saying so is putting a huge generalization on us guys and that isn't fair.

Is it true that all guys want sex? I think it is safe to say yes. However, there are a lot of guys who want sex, but also want more. Then there are of course the guys who simply want sex and nothing else. There is definitely a mix of both. You just have to weed through the guys who only want sex to find the guys who actually want more.