Is she lying about wanting to go out with me?

[clueless_one]

I asked out the girl I like and she said yes. When it came to organising the date, she said she was busy saying she had a birthday party to go to and her friend saying she watched all the movies in the cinemas.

In class a few boys who sit behind me and her and also her friend who sits next to her start to say things to me and her, disturbing our school work. One of the boys said that I was going out with her out loud and everyone in the year knows I asked her out. She talked to the teacher about something covering her face from me and was asked to move from the disturbing boys, as she got up she said thank you to the teacher. The next lesson I went to sit next to her, and she went to the teacher and told her for me to move. I moved but now I think she is definitely lying about wanting to go out with me.

The full year knows I asked her out and the next girl I liked (I was prepared for a no) said that she didn't want to talk to me because I asked out another girl (it was obvious at this point she liked me).

The next girl I like after her was surprised that I asked a girl out and called her my girlfriend. She also said towards me but not directly to me that she wonders why no guys have asked her out. A boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. For some reason I feel that this is a sign that she has some interest in me. This girl has also shown signs of liking me, a few of the signs other girls have never shown to me.

So, I'm not sure what to do.

Is the girl I asked out lying about wanting to go out with me? If so which girl do I have a chance with now, the one who said she doesn't want to talk to me because I asked out another girl or the girl who was surprised I asked out a girl and started calling her my girlfriend? I With the situation if I told a girl that she lied about wanting to go out with me and then asked that girl out, would it look like i'm desperate?

[James Bond]

Very confusing situation. Just try to see if she likes you, like when you text her does it take a while for her to respond or is she fast? Stuff like that are little hints you want to look for.

[clueless_one]

Very confusing situation. Just try to see if she likes you, like when you text her does it take a while for her to respond or is she fast? Stuff like that are little hints you want to look for.

I only sent a text to the girl I asked out once. She replied fairly quickly, yet that was the day of my birthday party and she said in the last minute she couldn't come. The girl I now like had a reasonable reason saying she had a surgery to go to throughout the week and might be in pain. She told me on the last day of rsvp.

Also the girl I like now has been showing signs of liking me.


she said she wonders why no guys ask her out after she found out I asked out another girl (she said it in front of me but not directly to me)

a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I'm talking about now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.


The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.


She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something about my school work, which never happeneds with other girls.

when passing utensils for the cooking class, she somehow made a way to touch my hand or for me to touch her hand.

her hand was really close to mine (almost touching distance(maybe wanted me to hold her hand)) she didn't move her hand at all. (This was at the same time as the sign above this one)

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class. It was also someones birthday on the same day of the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

Are these signs she likes me.

I'm afraid that if I ask out this new girl I like it will look like i'm desperate because I asked out another girl, she said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me... What should I do.

[James Bond]

I only sent a text to the girl I asked out once. She replied fairly quickly, yet that was the day of my birthday party and she said in the last minute she couldn't come. The girl I now like had a reasonable reason saying she had a surgery to go to throughout the week and might be in pain. She told me on the last day of rsvp.

Also the girl I like now has been showing signs of liking me.


she said she wonders why no guys ask her out after she found out I asked out another girl (she said it in front of me but not directly to me)

a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I'm talking about now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.


The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.


She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something about my school work, which never happeneds with other girls.

when passing utensils for the cooking class, she somehow made a way to touch my hand or for me to touch her hand.

her hand was really close to mine (almost touching distance(maybe wanted me to hold her hand)) she didn't move her hand at all. (This was at the same time as the sign above this one)

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class. It was also someones birthday on the same day of the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

Are these signs she likes me.

I'm afraid that if I ask out this new girl I like it will look like i'm desperate because I asked out another girl, she said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me... What should I do.
Not to be rude, but many other people would value a friends birthday party over a date, so she probably just got confused with timing and dates (calendar dates). It seems like this other girl likes you a lot, either two things: she likes you and is interested in you or she wants to be your friend.

[clueless_one]

Not to be rude, but many other people would value a friends birthday party over a date, so she probably just got confused with timing and dates (calendar dates). It seems like this other girl likes you a lot, either two things: she likes you and is interested in you or she wants to be your friend.

But the girl who didn't come to my birthday party (told me late that she couldn't make it, the one your saying got confused with dates), I asked out she said yes and I tried deciding a date, she then said that she was busy and also in class a few boys who sit behind me and her and also her friend who sits next to her start to say things to me and her, disturbing our school work. One of the boys said that I was going out with her out loud and everyone in the year knows I asked her out. She talked to the teacher about something covering her face from me and was asked to move from the disturbing boys, as she got up she said thank you to the teacher. The next lesson I went to sit next to her, and she went to the teacher and told her for me to move. I moved but now I think she is definitely lying about wanting to go out with me.

The second girl who I now like, had surgery for something on the date of my party which was understandable, but because I asked out the other girl I'm afraid I will look desperate if I ask this girl out. So what do you think I should do. The signs that I already posted are about this second girl I like. But i'm not sure what to do.

Also which girl are you saying likes me the first or second?

[James Bond]

Well I'm confused, so ill discontinue posting as I do not know anything further.

[indoxyl]

Im actually so tired of your threads right now. Holy. Look i dont think any of us can help you. Every single thread you have made, youve disregarded the peoples advice and just go on to make a new thread with the same crap. Ive reported you twice for spmmingthis forum and i will damn well do it again. honestly do whatever you think you should do cause clearly you dont want ourhelp.

[clueless_one]

Im actually so tired of your threads right now. Holy. Look i dont think any of us can help you. Every single thread you have made, youve disregarded the peoples advice and just go on to make a new thread with the same crap. Ive reported you twice for spmmingthis forum and i will damn well do it again. honestly do whatever you think you should do cause clearly you dont want ourhelp.

I hate this, I hate this situation and my life. I feel like killing myself. All I ask is for some advice, and I think about new shit out of the blue and want to get advice. I've had enough of this fucking shit.

I want to ask out another girl and i'm afraid I will look desperate. Know what, who the fuck cares, I will ask this second girl out, and she will think i'm desperate and my fucking life will be shit with everyone in my grade knowing that I asked out another girl and that I look desperate. All I want is some fucking advice. Know what fuck this shit, I don't fucking care at all. Time for me to live a lonely life, and being an only child it looks like it will stay with only me. Fuck you and all this shit.:mad::mad::mad:

:cry::cry::cry::cry:

[James Bond]

Im actually so tired of your threads right now. Holy. Look i dont think any of us can help you. Every single thread you have made, youve disregarded the peoples advice and just go on to make a new thread with the same crap. Ive reported you twice for spmmingthis forum and i will damn well do it again. honestly do whatever you think you should do cause clearly you dont want ourhelp.

There no need to be rude. But I do agree that you have posted the very same question (by the looks of it) more than 3x.


I hate this, I hate this situation and my life. I feel like killing myself. All I ask is for some advice, and I think about new shit out of the blue and want to get advice. I've had enough of this fucking shit.

I want to ask out another girl and i'm afraid I will look desperate. Know what, who the fuck cares, I will ask this second girl out, and she will think i'm desperate and my fucking life will be shit with everyone in my grade knowing that I asked out another girl and that I look desperate. All I want is some fucking advice. Know what fuck this shit, I don't fucking care at all. Time for me to live a lonely life, and being an only child it looks like it will stay with only me. Fuck you and all this shit.:mad::mad::mad:

:cry::cry::cry::cry:

Your being over dramatic about it. If you think of new stuff to say, couldn't you just re edit it into another thread you've made instead of make a new one with most of the same details except for added details?

People won't have pity for you on this site, because many others lead a harder life than you. Some people on here have to worry about where their next meal will come from, not petty little problems like "I don't want to look desperate! My life is shit! No girl will ever like me!" To most of the people on here, that is the pettiest problem ever. Hell, I could even make the post you just made cause I'm 18 and I've never once had a girlfriend. Sure it's sad, but instead of whining about it accept the advice given.

http://bit.ly/17y7IVd

Click that link, and that should help tell you if the girl likes you or not.

[clueless_one]

There no need to be rude. But I do agree that you have posted the very same question (by the looks of it) more than 3x.

All I ask for is advice and no one seems to be helping me. The one thing I try to avoid is looking desperate, but with the new girl I now like, it seems that I will because I asked out a girl she said yes and the news has passed around the grade & this new girl knows that I asked a girl out and is calling her my girlfriend. So, what should I do, it is all I ask. Should I ask this girl out and look desperate, should I forget all together about asking a girl out due to the circumstance. Also, Do you think I will look desperate by doing so. It's all I ask for, just some advice...


Your being over dramatic about it. If you think of new stuff to say, couldn't you just re edit it into another thread you've made instead of make a new one with most of the same details except for added details?

People won't have pity for you on this site, because many others lead a harder life than you. Some people on here have to worry about where their next meal will come from, not "I don't want to look desperate! My life is shit! No girl will ever like me!" To most of the people on here, that is the smallest problem ever.

Really, I've also had it tough. I tried to commit suicide when I was about 14-16 years old due to bullying and felt that life was worthless. I'm again now getting that same feeling again because people are just telling me to forget about girls all together, not go for the girls I like. I'm an only child, and it sucks. My life has been crap and been depressed for a long time. All I ask is for advice.

There no need to be rude. But I do agree that you have posted the very same question (by the looks of it) more than 3x.




Your being over dramatic about it. If you think of new stuff to say, couldn't you just re edit it into another thread you've made instead of make a new one with most of the same details except for added details?

People won't have pity for you on this site, because many others lead a harder life than you. Some people on here have to worry about where their next meal will come from, not petty little problems like "I don't want to look desperate! My life is shit! No girl will ever like me!" To most of the people on here, that is the pettiest problem ever. Hell, I could even make the post you just made cause I'm 18 and I've never once had a girlfriend. Sure it's sad, but instead of whining about it accept the advice given.

http://bit.ly/17y7IVd

Click that link, and that should help tell you if the girl likes you or not.

I've seen that site all the time. All the signs match up. But in my situation again, I've asked out a girl she said yes and when organising the date she said she was busy and then said the truth saying she didn't want to go out with me. The girl I now like knows I asked out a girl and she was surprised I have a girlfriend. But with the signs that this new girl is giving and that I've been lied to by the girl I asked out I'm not sure what to do. :( I don't want to look desperate, yes I know this girl I like now likes me, but with what happened now, I'm not sure what to do.

Please don't post consecutively, if you need to add something, go back and edit your previous post.:) ~Bo

[James Bond]

All I ask for is advice and no one seems to be helping me. The one thing I try to avoid is looking desperate, but with the new girl I now like, it seems that I will because I asked out a girl she said yes and the news has passed around the grade & this new girl knows that I asked a girl out and is calling her my girlfriend. So, what should I do, it is all I ask. Should I ask this girl out and look desperate, should I forget all together about asking a girl out due to the circumstance. Also, Do you think I will look desperate by doing so. It's all I ask for, just some advice...

http://bit.ly/13kEx8S

How to know if she likes you^

http://m.wikihow.com/Avoid-Looking-Desperate

How to not be desperate ^

[Lost in the Echo]

Alright everyone, this is a warning: Do not name call, or be rude to other members. That will not be tolerated. If another incident like that happens, this thread will be closed, and some members may be infracted.

[clueless_one]

http://bit.ly/13kEx8S

How to know if she likes you^

http://m.wikihow.com/Avoid-Looking-Desperate

How to not be desperate ^

On how to not be desperate. Number 2, don't try to hard. It will seem that i'm trying hard to get a girlfriend, thus looking desperate (it doesn't say that but its from what I think). So, if I do ask her out then I will look desperate. Or do you think that if I tell her that the girl I asked out lied, it might change the full story?

By the way, the link is showing to one person which you like. I asked out a girl, she lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now knows that I asked another girl out. If I ask this new girl out, won't I look desperate to try and get a girlfriend, just tell me what you think?

[James Bond]

On how to not be desperate. Number 2, don't try to hard. It will seem that i'm trying hard to get a girlfriend, thus looking desperate (it doesn't say that but its from what I think). So, if I do ask her out then I will look desperate. Or do you think that if I tell her that the girl I asked out lied, it might change the full story?

By the way, the link is showing to one person which you like. I asked out a girl, she lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now knows that I asked another girl out. If I ask this new girl out, won't I look desperate to try and get a girlfriend, just tell me what you think?
Wait to ask her out in a month.

[clueless_one]

Wait to ask her out in a month.

I'm in my final year of school. It ends in about a month before we study for our final exams. But i'm on holidays now, so it should work...

What do you think she might say as a reply if I do ask her out?

[James Bond]

I'm in my final year of school. It ends in about a month before we study for our final exams. But i'm on holidays, so it should work...

What do you think she might say as a reply if I do ask her out?

Yes or no. That's all she could say.

[CyrustheGreat]

Well, still a better love story than Twilight. Hahaha. But seriously, trust your gut, maybe the girl you initially asked out was freaked-out by your brashness. (Did I use that word right?)

[clueless_one]

Well, still a better love story than Twilight. Hahaha. But seriously, trust your gut, maybe the girl you initially asked out was freaked-out by your brashness. (Did I use that word right?)

:what:

I have a gut feeling that this new girl likes me and the girl I asked out is lying.

I'm not sure if I posed it already but when in class, there were boys behind the girl I asked out and me annoying me and her. The boys yelled out that I asked her out and the teacher came up and told her to move. She said thank you after the teacher told her to move. Also the day after I was about to sit next to her and she told the teacher for me to move. So my gut is telling me that she doesn't like me and that this new girl likes me. The girl I asked out hasn't sent me a text since I asked her out so...

[CyrustheGreat]

Well, maybe its for the best. Its impossible to tell who your future soul mate is. (Of course, you don't seem to be looking for that right now, but just saying.)