Am I weird because I don't want to have friends?

[Redrocket]

Hey guys do you think I weird that I want to be anti-social and not have any friends?

Well here's some stories about my reasons why I don't want any friends.

Bullied:

I have this friend who used to bully me allot as when we were young he used to call me names,punch me and kick me, pull the string outta my hoodie and say do some hurtful things to me like "fag" "loser, ,f**ker if you piss me off i am gonna break your spinal cord!" and worst of all "Go play with your other friends" meanwhile I didn't have any other friends.


He told
Me he bullied me just to fit in with the other kids and the other kids didn't like me and he did to it to fit in. Now a days he acts like my best friend and comes to my house just to play my video games because that's all he wants to do because he's not allowed to play video games at his house. He always begs me to come down to my house and when I say no he just says "can I ask your dad"? Then I tell him I'm busy he goes "it doesn't really hurt to ask" and when he goes to my house he says "I'm hungry can your dad cook me dinner and he starts to give my dad orders like do this and do that

when he plays a fighting video game he claims all the best characters he's like "NO don't choose him he's my guy" meanwhile it's my Xbox! he's a bossy little one!" He's the rudest house guest on on the planet if you ever meet him don't invite them to your house. Nah you will probably never meet him.
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Imuture best friend

My best friend is imuture he is embarrison sometimes he is 20 years old and still thinks farts are funny. I know there funny sometimes but not all the time. And when he's mad at someone he says he's gonna punch him out but he never does and when he sees them he goes "hi and acts friendly he tells me he's just being nice to them. His mom treats him like a 7 year old and he says some mean stuff behind her back sometimes and always acts scared of his mom when he sees her "mommy mommy I am sorry" and acts like a little kid
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Drama
Well here's the second reason I don't want any friends less drama ever since I entered high school there's been allot of drama I started hanging with the wrong crowed it was those bull crappers who always start crap about people and always wants to know who's dating who I been through a whole bunch of drama ever since I started dating one of the members of the drama queens back in2010 but she wasn't really one of them she was my first high school love and when me and her were in love her girlfriends didn't like it to much and broke me and her up 4 mouths later and introduced her to her future fiancé after me and that girl broke up her girlfriends tried to break the girl and her and her future fiancé up. God hate high school drama queens and kings I also hate drama queens who say
"Im pregnant"
"He raped me"
"He tried to touch me"
It's all bull crap they just want to be the centre of attention
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Here are some other reasons
Getting used: I am sick and tired of my friends using me they always bum money or get me to buy them stuff because I am always the one that has the money.

Friends lead to trouble: I been set up by this girl and I was surrounded by a whole bunch of kids and I accidentally hit a girl with a water bottle and they caused a whole bunch of crap for me

Drugs and drinking: some of my friends go to party's and drink or do drugs and that's a bad influence on me

Well here's my reasons why I don't want any friends anymore maybe someday I will meet better friends or meet some online.

[gotstyle]

I'm kinda the same I don't really talk to anyone outside of school then besides my gf

[tubanic]

Considering what you've been through, I don't blame you for not wanting friends
I'm the same, I only have internet friends

[James Bond]

It's abnormal for sure. But you have your reasons, it's sad that some of your friends have traumatised you in such a way.

Most people want friends so they have someone to bond with and connect to, give it another try.

[Sharona]

Of course it's weird, it goes against human nature as we are social creatures

But hey be all emo and whine about it until u need ppl

[Loreley]

You have some bad experiences from your "friends", but I think that you have to overcome it and try to meet new people. That's what I'm trying to do.

[Jevon]

Ummm yah it is a little different that you don't want friends...but you should really just get out there and try to meet someone

[HockeyLovesMe]

i think you shouldnt judge to to much because i think you need friends and family when you get down so mabey try to get nice friends :) i no its hard but its worth the effort

[teen.jpg]

I'm anti-social too kind of. I don't talk to anyone outside of school (besides texting a few friends) and I don't have any other friends besides the ones at school. I wish I had more friends, but I don't know how I'd get any more.

[zeebo]

Nah, just go and meet new people, you'll like them more.

[photojared]

you just need to stop being friends with him and find new people to hang out with

[KimuraWannabe116]

Some people just don't want friends, it is as simple as that...

[Overture Libra]

I can really relate to your situation. I haven't experienced everything you've mentioned, like bullying, but I can say that I have also lost interest in getting friends. All of mine are online, and even then that's not doing too well. I've had problems holding friendships, and it's really messed up a lot of good ones.

For me, I've changed my line of thinking and friends are no longer a major priority, as I'm also tired of being used and having friendships turn bad. I do think it's pretty abnormal, but you're definitely not alone.

[Cece14]

I totaly feel you!!!!! Trust me Ive been there, but just keep moving and stay strong:)
Im with you

[Troy35216]

yes it's weird and here's why.


Bullied:
I have this friend who used to bully me allot
this person was not your friend. this person was a bully. a friend would not have done the things to you that this person did. so you can't judge what friends would do based on what this person did.



Imuture best friend

My best friend is imuture he is embarrison ..... and acts like a little kid
would a 15 year old be best friends with a 5 year old? of course not. because there is a huge difference in maturity. why be best friends with a little kid? or someone who acts like a little kid? if you had a best friend who was the same maturity level as you he wouldn't embarrass you or act like a litttle kid and so on.


Drama
Well here's the second reason I don't want any friends less drama ever since I entered high school there's been allot of drama I started hanging with the wrong crowed. it was those bull crappers who always start crap about people.
these people are not your friends. they are the "wrong crowd" why hang with the wrong crowd instead of the right crowd? they are bull crappers who start crap about people. your friends don't do stuff like that. so they are not your friends they are just bull crappers who start crap about people. hang with the right crowd, and with people who don't start crap about people instead.


Here are some other reasons
Getting used: I am sick and tired of my friends using me they always bum money or get me to buy them stuff because I am always the one that has the money.

these people aren't your friends. they are users. find friends who aren't users.



Friends lead to trouble: I been set up by this girl and I was surrounded by a whole bunch of kids and I accidentally hit a girl with a water bottle and they caused a whole bunch of crap for me


this person wasn't your friend. this person was another user.



Drugs and drinking: some of my friends go to party's and drink or do drugs and that's a bad influence on me .
this is just the wrong crowd again. if you don't want to hang around with people who drink or do drugs then don't hang around with people who drink or do drugs. or who take you to parties where that goes on.

All of your examples of "friends" are really examples of people who are NOT friends. so it's not weird that you don't want users and bullies and bull crappers and druggies and the wrong crowd in your life. that's not weird at all. but yes it is weird that you don't want FRIENDS who the exact opposite of all that stuff. just my opinion

[Redrocket]

Thanks people you guys and gals helped me allot! Anyways I been trying so hard to avoids friends like on Canada day I was at the park watching the fireworks then I see my best friends mom she runs up to me and says "hey pat happy Canada day my sons here"
"I know I saw him earlier with Cody" so later on my best friend came up to me and i just walked away and tried to avoid him because I wanted to give up on being friends with anybody. So we ended up watching the fireworks together because my dad was talking to my best friends family. Now my best friends wondering why I am no speaking to him. He even tried to buy me a pop. Do you guys think I am being a complete jerk?!

Also that bully keeps calling me everyday asking me to hang with him and I Teton to avoid him at all costs

[Andrew.]

Same problem here...

[JDubs]

When I first read the title of the post, I figured yes it is totally weird, but hearing all the things you've been thru, ID say its perfectly acceptable to feel that way. you should definitely just be don't with the current "friends" but for sure find others. Maybe not a lot, just one or two. And the best friends are often the people who you wouldn't even concider being friends with

[Croconaw]

I don't find it weird at all. By choice, I don't have many friends either.

[Miserabilia]

i prefer being alone too

[Andrew.]

Same problem. I'm starting to like loneliness, no friends, only I. It is sad that I don't have the best friend.....

[RyanCrest]

It's cool, you just needs some space right now