Meeting guy be4 coming out

[Imaustinigeuss]

Ok I've been trying to find gay guys my age close to me but I'm not put of the closet as in no one knows I'm gay other than Internet and north dokota is like the worst place to even find any I'm in a small school so no lgbt club

[Imaustinigeuss]

I geuss I posted this in the wrong section

[Dunce]

The only way to find another closeted guy would be through chance. Most out of the closet people will feel like they are going back into the closet by dating someone in the closet, and unless it's an undeniable romance it's unlikely they'd wait for you. So either tell a close friend and get them to help you, wait to find someone, or come out. Just how it works :(
You could go to an lgbt thing in another town?

[Imaustinigeuss]

The only way to find another closeted guy would be through chance. Most out of the closet people will feel like they are going back into the closet by dating someone in the closet, and unless it's an undeniable romance it's unlikely they'd wait for you. So either tell a close friend and get them to help you, wait to find someone, or come out. Just how it works :(
You could go to an lgbt thing in another town?

I would have to change schools and lottery everry single person that is my "freind" wouldn't be my freinds any more at all except one who is bi but she hardly even talked to me any more

[Nocturnal_Insomniac]

You could try talking to her anyway, maybe explain the situation. I can't really relate that well, when I came out to my friends, i sort of slipped it into conversation, as if id already told them, and they had already known for ages. Most of them apparently thought i was bi anyway. plus, things are different in Australia. However, I'm at an all girls school, and I'm not completely out, on the basis that there are several girls who are always like ' I'm so glad no-one here is les. the thought that they might be watching me is disgusting' whenever we change for PE. But as Dunce said, is there anyway you go go to a lgbt meet in another town? Or is there anything on the net - a community or some such - where you could talk to some other gay guys. When i was coming to terms with being pan, i joined an online community that was based around the teenage lgbt community in north sydney, where i live. Do you know of anything similar? don't have all that much else, but if you want to talk, I'm here. i also have the benefit of having played beard for a guy for 9 months, when he was at a new school, and had no idea what the kids might think. Hope you find something to help