Not sure what to do?

[clueless_one]

I asked out a girl, she said yes and then when organising the date, she said she was busy and said she didn't want to go out with me. Now being prepared for a no, I started to gain feelings for another girl (who seems to have a bit in common with me and the previous girl didn't). With what's happened, I now want to ask out the new girl but I don't want to look desperate because of what happened with the other girl. Also this new girl knows I asked out a girl and called her my girlfriend (she was surprised when she found out), she also said she wonders why no guys ask her out after she found out I asked out another girl (she said it in front of me but not directly to me). On the same day she said this, a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I'm talking about now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.

The new girl I like has also been showing signs of liking me. (Which is already on another thread. It isn't really required for this question. But if needed click here. NOTE: It's the signs of the second girl (Text starts in bold section)

[Miserabilia]

I didnt really follow your story, or what you are asking advice for, sory...

[clueless_one]

I didnt really follow your story, or what you are asking advice for, sory...

I want to ask out the girl I like now after asking out a girl and her saying yes but lying about wanting to go out with me. I don't want to look desperate and don't know what to do because the girl I like now knows I asked out a girl and she said yes but doesn't know she lied. The girl I like now called the girl I asked out my girlfriend and was surprised when she found out. After this she said she wonders why no guys ask her out after she found out I asked out another girl (she said it in front of me but not directly to me). On the same day she said this, a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I'm talking about now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.

I'm not sure what to do because I don't want to look desperate after asking out a girl and now wanting to ask out another girl who I like and seems to have things in common with me.

I want advice on what to do about this thanks.

[HockeyLovesMe]

dude ask out who u like and dont worry about any other girls :) im sure she will say yes if you ask her out :) good luck

[HockeyLovesMe]

dude ask out who u like and dont worry about any other girls :) im sure she will say yes if you ask her out :) good luck

[clueless_one]

dude ask out who u like and dont worry about any other girls :) im sure she will say yes if you ask her out :) good luck

I asked out a girl she lied about wanting to go out with me. I want to ask out another girl but am afraid I will look desperate of I do so. She also knows I asked out another girl but doesn't know she lied, yet again I will say I don't want to look desperate.

[HockeyLovesMe]

I asked out a girl she lied about wanting to go out with me. I want to ask out another girl but am afraid I will look desperate of I do so. She also knows I asked out another girl but doesn't know she lied, yet again I will say I don't want to look desperate.

dude u wont look desperate.. ask her out :)

[MoonMan]

Just tell her the truth about how the other girl lied to you and you would like to hang out with her sometime. You're not going to seem desperate, and if it happens you do, who cares? The worst she can do is say no. Stop overthinking it and just do it.

[clueless_one]

dude u wont look desperate.. ask her out :)

Just tell her the truth about how the other girl lied to you and you would like to hang out with her sometime. You're not going to seem desperate, and if it happens you do, who cares? The worst she can do is say no. Stop overthinking it and just do it.

So what you are trying to say is that I should tell her the girl I asked out lied and later ask her out. Still sounds like I might look desperate but it might still work.

Also about the signs, are these signs that this new girl likes me.

she said she wonders why no guys ask her out after she found out I asked out another girl (she said it in front of me but not directly to me)

a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I'm talking about now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.


The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.


She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something about my school work, which never happeneds with other girls.

her hand was really close to mine (almost touching distance(maybe wanted me to hold her hand)) she didn't move her hand at all. (This was at the same time as the sign above this one)

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class. It was also someones birthday on the same day of the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

when passing utensils for the cooking class, she somehow made a way to touch my hand or for me to touch her hand.

Are these signs she likes me.

[MoonMan]

If you interpret them as signs she likes you and it seems that most girls don't normally do these things to you, then that's more than enough reason to go for it. It won't matter if you look desperate or not if she says yes. And if she says no, there's likely more reasons for her saying so other than just you seeming desperate. Some of which may be out of your control. A more than likely reason being she just may not be interested in you in that kind of way, a view which most likely won't change regardless of your method of asking her out. Can't know for sure unless you try.