Anal s3cks

[Cognizant]

I'm a bit nervous because my boyfriend wants to have sex (I'd be top and he'd be bottom), but I don't know what to expect at all...

[James Bond]

I'm confused by the title, what's "s3cks"?


Well, make sure you or him start off slow. If you just go fast immediately, even with lube, you can rip the anal wall and you can even cause a prolapsed rectum, which is no fun (and requires a $2000 surgery).

-Make sure you and him use tons if lube and go slow

-Make sure you communicate. The first time is more about trying to figure out what the other person likes and enjoys. So ask him if he likes anything extra (I'm sure you can figure out what I mean by extra ;) lol)

-Make sure you both use a condom, if you or him have an STD then it could be spread, but most importantly, make sure if you do have an STD, you make him aware of it. Doing that alone could protect you legally if he ever decided to sue or press charges against you (I'm not saying he will, but better be safe than sorry, it's like a way of protecting your legal interests, like a prenuptial agreement but for sex haha)

[Lovelife090994]

I'm confused by the title, what's "s3cks"?


Well, make sure you or him start off slow. If you just go fast immediately, even with lube, you can rip the anal wall and you can even cause a prolapsed rectum, which is no fun (and requires a $2000 surgery).

-Make sure you and him use tons if lube and go slow

-Make sure you communicate. The first time is more about trying to figure out what the other person likes and enjoys. So ask him if he likes anything extra (I'm sure you can figure out what I mean by extra ;) lol)

-Make sure you both use a condom, if you or him have an STD then it could be spread, but most importantly, make sure if you do have an STD, you make him aware of it. Doing that alone could protect you legally if he ever decided to sue or press charges against you (I'm not saying he will, but better be safe than sorry, it's like a way of protecting your legal interests, like a prenuptial agreement but for sex haha)

Prolapsed?

[James Bond]

Prolapsed?

Yes. Prolapsed rectum.

[Lovelife090994]

Yes. Prolapsed rectum.

I'll have to look that up, it sounds shockingly painful and financially devasting.

[Jasperf]

I'm confussed too

[Lovelife090994]

Yes. Prolapsed rectum.

Your newer post if you quoted me as notified, didn't show.

[Cognizant]

I'm confused by the title, what's "s3cks"?


Well, make sure you or him start off slow. If you just go fast immediately, even with lube, you can rip the anal wall and you can even cause a prolapsed rectum, which is no fun (and requires a $2000 surgery).

-Make sure you and him use tons if lube and go slow

-Make sure you communicate. The first time is more about trying to figure out what the other person likes and enjoys. So ask him if he likes anything extra (I'm sure you can figure out what I mean by extra ;) lol)

-Make sure you both use a condom, if you or him have an STD then it could be spread, but most importantly, make sure if you do have an STD, you make him aware of it. Doing that alone could protect you legally if he ever decided to sue or press charges against you (I'm not saying he will, but better be safe than sorry, it's like a way of protecting your legal interests, like a prenuptial agreement but for sex haha)
Thanks for the help! Now I just need to find a place to do 'it' without getting caught :P

[James Bond]

Thanks for the help! Now I just need to find a place to do 'it' without getting caught :P

Just do it on the kitchen table when your parents aren't home haha jk :P

[Rayquaza]

How long have you two been going out for? Didn't you just get together quite recently? I'd personally wait a little. The fact you began with "my boyfriend wants to have sex" implies that you didn't think of the idea and you're not mentally ready. I'd wait a bit before you do anything.

If and when you do have sex though, always stay safe, use protection and don't rush into things you aren't comfortable doing. It's against site rules to share experiences so I'm not going to explain what sex feels like (but I'm a virgin so I couldn't anyway xD).

[johnsmith1]

I'm a bit nervous because my boyfriend wants to have sex (I'd be top and he'd be bottom), but I don't know what to expect at all...

The user James Bond describes how to do it qite well. If you do decide to do it, communicate. If there's pain, you're doing it wrong. Rectal prolapse is a bit extreme and would probably only happen if U'r way too rough and doing it completely wrong (which by the sounds of it you would likely stop way before that your first time).

I'll have to look that up, it sounds shockingly painful and financially devasting.
It is. A weightlifter once ended up in serious pain when all the presure of trying to lift the weight, the downward force in his body in that area caused damage.

[Lovelife090994]

The user James Bond describes how to do it qite well. If you do decide to do it, communicate. If there's pain, you're doing it wrong. Rectal prolapse is a bit extreme and would probably only happen if U'r way too rough and doing it completely wrong (which by the sounds of it you would likely stop way before that your first time).


It is. A weightlifter once ended up in serious pain when all the presure of trying to lift the weight, the downward force in his body in that area caused damage.

I heard of that! Apparently the muscle strains worked their way down the middle of his body to those regions... ugh, I know he was screaming.

[Nomad_X]

Good anal sex is all about good communication and LOTS of lube.
I Highly doubt, and would say it would be impossible to get anal prolapse on the first time you have sex. I know many many many gay people of all ages; I asked around a bit if anyone knows of anyone who had this happen and not one of them heard of it happening to anyone they knew. So again, I would highly doubt this would happen. As for $2000 operation? thats just silly. It would be that in like 1950 prices.

[dontfiguremeout]

This thread is getting inappropriate. We do not talk about sex techniques on here, only puberty questions. :locked: