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Giannaras
June 28th, 2013, 08:03 AM
I am 15(turning 16 on december) and I am going to be on the 2nd year of high school in two months(here in greece high school lasts 3 years)and still havent a girlfriend while I want to so bad my friends are in the top of the populars(at least 2 of them)and they all say because I am below normal in popularity I will never find a pretty girl but an ugly or average at the best.
I dont believe them but why they do that?Are they saying the truth they see or they are just being mean to me?
But one of them believes I can find a pretty girlfriend during the 12 months that will come if I try hard changing my style of clothes haircut etc.
Also what kind of character do you girls find attractive as a boyfriend?
And what kind of character do you find attractive but only as a friend?(cause I want the popular girls to be my friends I will try next year to befriend them we only say "hey" for now).
so if someone read all this please answer my questions.

SammieRose
June 28th, 2013, 08:18 AM
Stop right there, be yourself. You do not want a gf that will like you for who you can pretend you are, you want one that will love you for who you actually are.

We are not that difficult, just approach the one you like, establish conversation and follow from there. But always remember there are assholes and bitches everywhere, so you might approach a real bitch and be ready to handle that. If she makes fun of you, just walk away being the better man. She needs to degrade people to trick herself into thinking she's better, you just need to be yourself to be better ;)

Conqueror of Hearts
June 28th, 2013, 10:12 AM
I totally agree with Samantha. You should be youself and don't think too much about how you will behave. Just act as usual... and don't be so obsessed with popularity. Those ppl at school are not always the best one...they can be, but there are more good people who can be good friends to you even if they are not "popular"
You can get a pretty girl....everyone can. If you think you can look better then do it, change you haircut, exercise etc. To get a girl just be relaxed, confident... if you like a girl, start talking to her to get to know her better. If you like her personality as well and if she likes talking to you too then ask her out (on a date or just to hang out as friends at first). Be nice to her, and don't be arrogant .
Be yourself and enjoy. Good luck. :)

Cece14
June 28th, 2013, 03:54 PM
I agree with Samantha too

lipstick_kisses23
June 28th, 2013, 03:57 PM
Hoping on the agreeing with Samantha train