erections from handcuffs?

[normanford]

yea, umm, how should i start this?
i get erections from looking at other boys also, and i hope that im not gay
but once time my friends found a pair of toy handcuffs and rope, we decided to tie each other up. we each had to take off our shirts and leave only our jeans on, and we dared each other to strip in front of each other. after that we took out a leather belt and started hitting each other w/ it
that night we voted one person to be a "master" and every one else was a "slave". the master could have the slaves do anything he wanted, and he chose me to strip down to my boxers and he had everyone else handcuff me, tie my legs and hands together, and gag me with a sock.
but then i got an erection, and then i started to notice that every time i see or think about being tied up i get an erection.
is it normal get erections from being tied up and stuff like that?

[Patchy]

its called a fetish its normal.

[Sugaree]

It's a fetish and it's normal. You and your friends were just playing and you got aroused by it. It's normal for your age.

[normanford]

but what if i really, really, REALLY want to be tied up by other boys and be "enslaved" by them? would that make me gay?

[Sugaree]

no it wouldn't make you gay.


To be gay you must have not only a physical relationship but an emotinal one to.

So no that doesn't make you gay. It just means you're horny (aroused) by that. It's a fetish you have. So there is nothing wrong.

[Bobby]

It's called S&M. It doesn't make you gay, your in puberty and just experimenting.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadism_and_masochism

[Sugaree]

I would follow that link that Bobby gave. It's very informational

[byee]

First, what you're describing isn't technically a fetish. A fetish is something that is always required for sexual arousal and performance, and it usually consists of some non sexual thing.

I think what happened here was that you're a typical, pubescent-crazed teenager who got together with some of his friends and did something that was very sexual and therefore very arousing. The arousal has become associated with the act of getting tied up, etc. It's the association of 'sexual arousal'+getting tied up, playing 'slave' that is linked in your mind. And it's there because what you did was arousing to you.

It does not mean you're gay, perverted, twisted, or anything sordid or weird. It means you did something and had a very arousing response to it, so you (naturally) want to do it again. If you do, it will either be as arousing, or (most likely) at some point, the novelty of it will wear off and it won't be so much fun. That's because what's 'arousing' is sort of a natural response, you can have it towards whatever you choose, you have control over it.

[benny0D0boyz]

kinda weird, but i wouldnt do that eaither would my friends still there is nothing wrong with u im sure

[Gavin]

i've never heard of this one before handcuffs etc i suppose its whatever turns you on