People and I

[crepesuzette]

All my life I have encountered a-holes. People never listen to me. today when i talked to my friend about my loneliness i wanted him to sympathize with me and be more understanding and i was going to invite him out for a hangout and you know what he did? He hung up on me. One time in middle school I was called deformed because I had an oval face and an overbite. A lot of mean stuff were directed towards me.

I want to kill myself. Even some VT members have deleted me thinking that i have been all bitter and everything. Well you don't know me well enough to judge me!

Please edit next time instead of doubling.-Grumpy

[MoonMan]

Relax. You're going to kill yourself over a few vt members who deleted you? Everyone has encountered assholes in their travels, even assholes encounter other assholes from time to time, you're not alone. Trust me. Not everyone is like this, however, maybe you should look around more for new friends. Sitting around and wallowing about how bad people are isn't going to help anybody, let alone yourself. There's plenty of good people out there just like there are plenty of assholes out there, it all depends on how willing you are to search for those good people.

[crepesuzette]

Relax. You're going to kill yourself over a few vt members who deleted you? Everyone has encountered assholes in their travels, even assholes encounter other assholes from time to time, you're not alone. Trust me. Not everyone is like this, however, maybe you should look around more for new friends. Sitting around and wallowing about how bad people are isn't going to help anybody, let alone yourself. There's plenty of good people out there just like there are plenty of assholes out there, it all depends on how willing you are to search for those good people.

can't believe i cried over some of the stupid things they did. i was bullied and have struggled to make friends. my "friends" were all like you dont have life because you dont play video games. and then i told this guy about how grouchy i was and he's all like are you on your period? are you a male or female? his friend was also smiling at the moment. It's like people are gloating over your misfortune. Bitches.

[crepesuzette]

and when i was in this afterschool program, the prep coordinator, was okay initially but then she got grouchy every day cuhs she was pregnant and at times she had like mood swings. I was just like ms. ... are you okay? and she's like stop asking me if i'm okay or not! and then i asked why do you always snap at me? and then her assistant was all like no just you and they both laughed at me and i laughed with them. though i still wanted to glare at me.

[MoonMan]

Try not to be so sensitive to these kinds of things. I understand you were bullied and have struggled to make friends, but you seem to be overthinking some things as well. I can't tell if their tone was exactly spiteful or not, but some of this sounds like they were just playing around. Especially the prep coordinator bit. Tell your friends that they're crossing a line when they're joking around I'm sure they'll understand and, if they don't, maybe you need to find new friends.

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Not to be mean (and this will be VERY ironic for me to say) but you might be over-reacting. If it bothers you, tell them to stop.

[Charlie48]

learn to stick up for yourself and you can't expect people to react nicely to someone who's grouchy all the time. Sure, friends are supposed to support you, but everyone's patience has a limit.