notsure101
June 27th, 2013, 08:59 AM
Please bear with me guys and try and read the whole thing through I know its long, thanks guys I really need some help.
So when I started working at my former job there was this girl I cant really remember how we started hanging out, but anyway hanging out led to us drinkin, so one night I stayed at her house the night we were watching a movie and I was laying out on the couch with her sitting up and I had my head half way on her leg and she was stroking my hair I guess cause I was trashed. But that lead to me staying at her house more and more, and her staying at my house.
We had a relationship going, but she never mentioned she had a boyfriend that was in jail, so closer to his release date she started to slow things down and when that started happening we got into talks with her saying she really liked me but she didn't know what she wanted at that point still not telling me about the guy.
Recently me and her got into a argument at her house and we stopped talking. Two or three times I was drunk and angry at the situation and I texted her saying like "that's f**ked up you didn't tell me" stuff like that but even after all that I texted her when I was really sick and asked her to call her mom to see if I needed to go to the ER and she was fine with me and even offered to come with me if I decided to go, but I ended up not going.
I cant stop thinking about this girl, never had these strong of feelings for any other of my past girlfriends. Everyday I think bout her and I just wanna text her and see if we could get things back to the way things were. One thing really got to me on facebook I saw a post that said "Never give up on someone you cant go a day without thinking about"
So the question is how should I talk to her about it I feel like I shouldn't talk to her after the things I said but I really do want a relationship with her again, and I don't want her being hurt by this guy, cause everything we talked about he cant provide or support her doing, were I can.
Thanks for reading all the way through and for feedback
So when I started working at my former job there was this girl I cant really remember how we started hanging out, but anyway hanging out led to us drinkin, so one night I stayed at her house the night we were watching a movie and I was laying out on the couch with her sitting up and I had my head half way on her leg and she was stroking my hair I guess cause I was trashed. But that lead to me staying at her house more and more, and her staying at my house.
We had a relationship going, but she never mentioned she had a boyfriend that was in jail, so closer to his release date she started to slow things down and when that started happening we got into talks with her saying she really liked me but she didn't know what she wanted at that point still not telling me about the guy.
Recently me and her got into a argument at her house and we stopped talking. Two or three times I was drunk and angry at the situation and I texted her saying like "that's f**ked up you didn't tell me" stuff like that but even after all that I texted her when I was really sick and asked her to call her mom to see if I needed to go to the ER and she was fine with me and even offered to come with me if I decided to go, but I ended up not going.
I cant stop thinking about this girl, never had these strong of feelings for any other of my past girlfriends. Everyday I think bout her and I just wanna text her and see if we could get things back to the way things were. One thing really got to me on facebook I saw a post that said "Never give up on someone you cant go a day without thinking about"
So the question is how should I talk to her about it I feel like I shouldn't talk to her after the things I said but I really do want a relationship with her again, and I don't want her being hurt by this guy, cause everything we talked about he cant provide or support her doing, were I can.
Thanks for reading all the way through and for feedback