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Jay_Swagg_LOL
June 27th, 2013, 04:10 AM
Later on today I plan on losing my virginity. My mind is pretty set. Any tips? Btw I'm gay and I'm bottom and he's huge. We're using lots of lube. So...any tips?

notsure101
June 27th, 2013, 04:18 AM
Just make sure that this is really want, there's no taking it back once its done. Good luck man.

Jasperf
June 27th, 2013, 04:19 AM
Later on today I plan on losing my virginity. My mind is pretty set. Any tips? Btw I'm gay and I'm bottom and he's huge. We're using lots of lube. So...any tips?

Sorry man, I'm not gay so I wouldn't know myth on the topic, but i would just suggest that you losen up that area :0 and I would make sure the room is warm, as if its cold it will make you more tense down there. Just relax and be safe

James Bond
June 27th, 2013, 06:02 AM
Make sure you make it special, and make sure you aren't pressured into doing nothing you don't want to do.

Make sure you start slow, it can be very painful going fast. You can even harm yourself if you go too fast.

cameron1020
June 27th, 2013, 07:08 AM
Take a crap before. Make sure you are good and clean back there. Take it slow. Use quite a bit of lube. Its would help loosen you up if your partner fingered you a bit before. Start with one finger, step up to two then maybe three. Take it slow and make sure it's what you want.

Blablabla36489
June 27th, 2013, 07:11 AM
Just enjoy,you're lucky.

Second Chance
June 27th, 2013, 02:16 PM
Later on today I plan on losing my virginity. My mind is pretty set. Any tips? Btw I'm gay and I'm bottom and he's huge. We're using lots of lube. So...any tips?

First, you got to make sure the guy is clean and that he has no STDs. Especially if the guy is not a virgin and has been around, then you have to protect yourself by making sure he doesn't have anything.

Second, if this guy is hung, then you need to remember that sex for your first time is going to hurt, maybe a lot. Your partner has to take things slow, and you have to be relaxed. The tighter your muscles are down there, then the harder things will be done there (no pun intended).

Third, you got to remember that the anal area is really sensitive, and it doesn't take much to tear things down there. The minute you feel something that is not right, then you have to stop because tears down there are super painful and take forever to heal.

Fourth, someone above said that you had to make sure you take a dump and make sure you're clean down there. Face it, butts are not the cleanest places in the world which is why you got to make sure its as clean as possible.

Finally, get yourself tested after sex just to be safe. You would be surprised how shady some people can be about STDs, and you got to make sure you're all right even if the other person is not responsible.

Good luck, and I hope things work out.

johnsmith1
June 27th, 2013, 02:25 PM
Later on today I plan on losing my virginity. My mind is pretty set. Any tips? Btw I'm gay and I'm bottom and he's huge. We're using lots of lube. So...any tips?

If that's what you want go for it

First, you got to make sure the guy is clean and that he has no STDs. Especially if the guy is not a virgin and has been around, then you have to protect yourself by making sure he doesn't have anything.

Second, if this guy is hung, then you need to remember that sex for your first time is going to hurt, maybe a lot. Your partner has to take things slow, and you have to be relaxed. The tighter your muscles are down there, then the harder things will be done there (no pun intended).

Third, you got to remember that the anal area is really sensitive, and it doesn't take much to tear things down there. The minute you feel something that is not right, then you have to stop because tears down there are super painful and take forever to heal.

Fourth, someone above said that you had to make sure you take a dump and make sure you're clean down there. Face it, butts are not the cleanest places in the world which is why you got to make sure its as clean as possible.

Finally, get yourself tested after sex just to be safe. You would be surprised how shady some people can be about STDs, and you got to make sure you're all right even if the other person is not responsible.

Good luck, and I hope things work out.

and this is the most complete advice of the lot.
Good luck and have fun

biggyboys
June 27th, 2013, 04:55 PM
Use protection.

Ben4ever
June 27th, 2013, 05:50 PM
First, you got to make sure the guy is clean and that he has no STDs. Especially if the guy is not a virgin and has been around, then you have to protect yourself by making sure he doesn't have anything.

Second, if this guy is hung, then you need to remember that sex for your first time is going to hurt, maybe a lot. Your partner has to take things slow, and you have to be relaxed. The tighter your muscles are down there, then the harder things will be done there (no pun intended).

Third, you got to remember that the anal area is really sensitive, and it doesn't take much to tear things down there. The minute you feel something that is not right, then you have to stop because tears down there are super painful and take forever to heal.

Fourth, someone above said that you had to make sure you take a dump and make sure you're clean down there. Face it, butts are not the cleanest places in the world which is why you got to make sure its as clean as possible.

Finally, get yourself tested after sex just to be safe. You would be surprised how shady some people can be about STDs, and you got to make sure you're all right even if the other person is not responsible.

Good luck, and I hope things work out.
On top of that, I would recommend douching. It may be embarrassing to obtain but it will help clean you out.

countryboi9
June 27th, 2013, 08:46 PM
hey go for it and enjoy it, I loved my first time

justinglives
June 27th, 2013, 08:53 PM
okay okay okay already!
how did it go?

dontfiguremeout
June 27th, 2013, 10:06 PM
Tips on how to have sex is against the rules and is not really appropriate. :locked: